Internet celebrity Xu Dabao: I am suffering from domestic violence, and I don't know if I can survive the divorce

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Seeing a hot search on the Internet, Internet celebrity Xu Dabao said that he was suffering from domestic violence, and the other party refused to divorce.

She said that before getting married, the other party concealed the fact that she had a mental illness, and broke out after marriage.

From the video provided by the person concerned, it can be seen that her husband has repeatedly palmed her face.

Although the incident has not yet been resolved, this matter has indeed sounded a wake-up call for everyone once again.

1. If you move, you are wrong

In Xu Dabao's husband's personal account, he admitted to the matter of domestic violence against his wife, but, he said, there was another hidden plot behind it.

According to his description, the reason why he was emotionally out of control was because he found that his wife had signs of cheating.

Obviously the two were married, and his wife still maintained ambiguous and even improper relationships with several men, which annoyed him.

Especially when he saw his wife's attitude of not caring, he was angry for a while, and finally beat his wife.

He said he recognized his mistake and tried to contact his wife, but she has been in a state of disconnection.

In his view, the wife only hypes up the use of domestic violence, and this kind of behavior seriously affects his and his family's life.

However, domestic violence is never a matter of reason, as long as you do it, then you are wrong.

If your lover betrays you, you can ask for mental compensation, you can ask for financial compensation, but you can't beat people with your hands.

2. Domestic violence is harm

In the TV series "Xiao Min's Family", when Liu Xiaojie first met Xu Zheng, she also thought about starting a new life.

However, it was not until the two became husband and wife that Xu Zheng's behavior and his desire to control were really shown a little.

How gentle he was with Liu Xiaojie before, how cunning he is now. He can even hurt himself and the other party in order to express his love.

In Xu Zheng's view, the wife is no longer a person, but a private property, and she can only belong to herself.

Because she was married, she had to delete all the phone calls and chat friends on her phone about other people of the opposite sex.

Xu Zheng's love has long been no longer a love. Every slap he slapped was pushing Liu Xiaojie away from him little by little.

Loving this thing is indeed very selfish. However, that does not mean that the other party and you are together, it must belong to you completely.

Because, in addition to love, everyone has their own friends and family, and those people are equally important to everyone.

3. It's not that you don't divorce, it's that you can't get a divorce

Looking back at almost all the reported domestic violence incidents, the person who hurt others is always vibrant.

Wang Zijian has been abused by the family for many years, and after he went through the divorce procedures, he found that his wife had taken a lot of his hard work for himself.

The things he once ridiculed more than once in his own talk shows were all real.

In the face of domestic violence, in fact, whether it is a man or a woman, first of all, people will subconsciously choose to flee, but not all escape is useful.

There are too many people who are being abused by the family, and they are also suffering from mental PUA, and they have an excessive sense of dependence on each other.

Just like the woman who was abused by the family in Xi'an, in the end she chose to forgive. She felt that her husband just didn't hold back for a moment.

However, domestic violence will always be only zero times and countless times. Your patience will only bring you more pain.

4. Domestic violence is the worst thing

Never physically or mentally harm another person in the name of love, because love should not include those contents.

Everyone is an adult, and the first thing you should have is the ability to face problems and solve problems, not to speak with your fists.

When you show your fist to the other person, even before that, you are full of grievances, at this moment, you have become the perpetrator.

Force can be used for self-defense, it can be used to protect loved ones, but it must not be used to hurt them.

In marriage, zero tolerance for domestic violence, infidelity and other events is not a requirement, it is the bottom line.

Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.