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01. Preface
Women are like flowers, each with its own strengths.
The woman who chooses to be a peony is elegant and calm, intellectually connotative, and a smile makes people feel like a spring breeze.
A woman's true beauty is on the inside, and her appearance will gradually grow old over time. Inner cultivation will make people more and more temperamental and charming.
There is a saying in "White Moonlight": "For women, marriage and career are of course important, but it is more important to run themselves." There is no perfect marriage in this world, and there is no career that will always rise, and when these are all far away from you, you have nothing but yourself. ”
On the road of life, women run themselves well, which is an important class.
Smart women, on the road of life, face a complex society, know the world and not the world, dare to pursue inner peace and quiet, and live calmly. No matter what age you are, you can live yourself.
A woman with a good life, clean and calm, quiet and indisputable.
02, quiet woman, quiet and indisputable
Quiet and non-contentious is an attitude towards life.
Stay sane in silence, maintain self-cultivation, and maintain a calm. In the face of the strife in this world, be quiet and not argue, retreat as advance, and leave a way out for yourself.
The best way to live in life is not to be strong everywhere, but to be quiet and not to argue.
Quiet and indisputable women, silent, have long learned to manage their own lives.
Quiet women, quiet and indisputable, they can be the masters of emotions, and they have long quit emotions. The right and wrong of this world cannot be argued with a few words.
Winning or losing, in fact, does not matter at all.
If you like to win or lose everything, and finally find that your state of mind is affected, but it is chaotic about the rhythm of the self and the direction of the way forward.
Life is short, so why waste time and energy on meaningless things.
Quiet and indisputable women, their future plans are very clear, know what they want, how to do it, and will not be easily swayed by the eyes and evaluation of others.
On the road of life, the more you know how to practice yourself quietly and calmly, the smoother the path of life will be.
03, clean heart, calm life
Quiet woman, clean inside, without too many impurities, lives calmly and calmly.
Quiet women are not affected by the complexity of the world. They love life and can run life according to their own ideas.
In the TV series "Xiao Min Family", Liu Xiaomin is a person who bravely lives for himself.
When her marriage failed, she resolutely chose to divorce and go to Beijing. Although life was full of hardships, she did not despair, did not cry and despair, but quietly chose to rely on herself.
In unfamiliar places of life, she strives to stand firm.
No matter what waves life sets off and unpleasant voices appear in the outside world, Liu Xiaomin calmly copes with it and follows the path of his own life according to what he wants in his heart.
A woman with a quiet heart, even if her life is full of holes and the world is chaotic, she can still adhere to her inner peace, move forward with one heart, and strive to live.
Some women have experienced the polishing of the years, too much inner desire, too many voices, too much care about gains and losses, and gradually become numb in life and forget the original intention. In the end, he lived to be what he hated.
Women who are clean inside, insist on listening to their own inner voices, they have a unique power to make people feel their firmness in life.
04, clean woman, peace of mind
Quiet women, quiet at heart, they are good at pleasing themselves. For the life you like, know how to make an effort to fight.
Bai Luomei said: "Life should be cut out of complexity and simplicity, let the world sway, the heart is always like a lotus, quiet bloom." ”
What kind of life a person will live comes from their own choices.
Quiet women, after going through vicissitudes, can still have a good heart and can focus on their own lives. The state of mind does not fluctuate because of the gains and losses in life.
Quiet women, maintaining a clean and peaceful heart, are not easily swallowed up by the trivialities of life.
Even if life hides tests and hides wind and rain everywhere, they can always maintain a good feeling in their hearts, do a good job of appreciating themselves, pleasing themselves, and cherishing themselves.
Women who know how to please themselves and love themselves will always be full of enthusiasm and expectations for life in their hearts.
A quiet woman can keep her heart pure and strive for what she likes.
No matter how rough the road is, don't be afraid of people's words, just firmly become yourself, manage yourself well, and enjoy your own blessings in the quiet years.
05. Summary
The true beauty of the world is never superficial.
Good life woman, beautiful quiet and clean. In this impetuous world, keep the clarity of the heart and live every day calmly and calmly.
Quiet women are not weak, but more powerful.
They are strong in their hearts, dare to face the ups and downs of life, have independent personalities, and write their own stories on the road of life with heart.
A quiet and indisputable woman, with a transparent heart, born ordinary but living an extraordinary life. Be yourself quietly, know how to manage your life well, reconcile with your troubles, and retreat into progress.
In fact, every woman can become a good life, but she is crushed in front of the reality of some women.
Meditation on self-cultivation is a wise attitude towards the world.
People live a lifetime, be kind to themselves, and live wonderfully by their own ability. A woman with a good life, never give up.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.