Opening Remarks:
When people are young, they will be a little unbelieving.
Only because, in the bottom of everyone's heart, there will be an idea, that is, "how big the heart is, how small is the world", the sky is high and the sea is wide, they are like fish, they can churn in the sea at will, they are like birds, they can fly in the blue sky at will.
But as we get older, this youthful attachment will be like a parabola, no longer arrogant and uninhibited, no longer looking at the world, and begin to be modest and cautious, cautious, and indifferent.
When you are old, everything will be opened, and after most of your life, you know that the world is brilliant and romantic, and the flowers are blooming, but there are people outside the people, and there is a sky outside the sky. You have arrogance, but you must not be arrogant, you can not care about difficulties, but do not underestimate others, overestimating yourself.
Therefore, the word "people" seems very simple, but in fact, it is already constantly reminding us how to be human.
A stroke, it seems simple, you have one more stroke, it is not a "person".
Therefore, at a certain age, don't stare at the past, don't look at the surprises ahead, but live well in the moment, walk the road under your feet down-to-earth, so that you can walk steadily, do not fall, do not step on the air.
Life, like grass mustard.
At the flick of a finger, it may wither and wither, so don't live so anxiously, don't think so much, don't make life so tired.
When we are old, let us live like this and live our own wonderful.
Life, simple
Perhaps, when you are old, the most important thing is to be healthy.
Without good health, everything is off the table. Therefore, if you can take good care of your body and not get sick, it is the greatest success of a person when you are old.
Get old, let the days return to the beginning, and be your own unique master.
Live a little tacky, calm and indifferent, close to life, do not pretend, do not let the days thick. Ordinary, not terrible, what is terrible is that you are obviously powerless, but you still reluctantly ask for it, so that you can live unhappily.
Perhaps, it is difficult for us to find Tao Yuanming's leisurely "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the South Mountain", nor can we achieve the romance of "a little snow in the red furnace", but we can find the simplicity and simplicity of the small bridge and flowing water people.
When you get old, you live simply.
The days are simple, coarse tea and light rice, coarse cloth and coarse food; making friends is simple, ignoring gossip, not provoking right and wrong. Whoever you like, you will approach, and whoever you hate, you will stay away from whom. Not more real, not angry, when it is time to sleep, take a good rest, when it is time to exercise, exercise seriously, and enjoy life.
After all, life is not that long.
There is no need to waste time on calculations, so that the days are clean, so that you can live freely; let yourself have no heart and no lungs, in order to live without tiredness.
Don't worry about the lives of children, they have grown up and have their own opinions and ideas, as the old saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Don't let their lives delay your life, and don't let yourself meddle too much to dominate their lives.
To make yourself healthy and healthy, happy and happy is to let the child worry and let himself live happily.
State of Mind, Peace
People must have a "rare and confused" heart to live.
Sometimes, living too clearly is a kind of sadness, living a little "silly", but it is a kind of happiness.
You must know that in this world, no one is much smarter than anyone, and no one is stupid, so if you live a little more realistically, your state of mind will be very peaceful, and if you live a little more realistically, your state of mind will be very indifferent.
When people are old, they should be three points thin and cool, three points warm, and the rest is four o'clock, careless. In this way, you can make your life all seasons sunny.
Most of the time, there are not so many people around us who care about you, and most of the time they think too much about themselves. Therefore, those who have a heart will be very tired, and those who have no heart will not care.
Throughout our lives, we are actually just paying for our own cognition, the higher your level of cognition, the more transparent you see things, the less you will treat some small things as big things. On the contrary, the lower your level of cognition, the more you will press some things to your mind, allowing yourself to live depressed and uneasy.
When people are old, we must remember that half of life is "understanding", generally "forget it". Don't owe yourself, don't please others, live your life well, let your heart be peaceful, you will find your own happiness.
The trivialities of life are fair to everyone, and there are difficult scriptures for everyone.
You look at others enjoying the joys of heaven, but you don't know that others also have unspeakable sufferings; you feel that your life is difficult, but it is likely that others are envious of your plainness and tranquility.
Therefore, the long stream of thin water is the essence, let everything come slowly, walk slowly, not arrogant, let the mood be soft, in order to find the deep affection for life in the dim light.
Past, let go
In everyone's heart, there will be a story; everyone's past will have some difficulties; everyone's past will have a parting.
Man, in fact, is a creature that is constantly transforming.
So, when you are old, don't be sad about the past that has passed; don't worry about the unfairness of the past. In the first half of life, the more you see the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and in the second half of your life, the more you must live gently and let go.
People, always walking and walking, understand, will not complain anymore, will not go to tangled, but more free than before, do not want to make themselves too tired, do not want to let the heart tired again.
The past is nothing more trivial than the present. Memories, although some beauty, but missed on the past, don't be sad anymore, cherish the people and things around you, is to be kind to yourself.
After all, life is only once, the age is old, tired of walking, just take a break, let the mood take a vacation, the more comfortable you live, the more you enjoy the old age.
Old, is everyone can not stop the thing, don't be a little thing, just make a big fuss, worry, you know, no matter how big the wind and rain of life, you have come over, the current you, more indifferent.
Live as you want, love yourself, love your family, love your friends, even if you are old, it is not a big deal.
Stop being stubborn like when you were young, learn to be content, learn to please yourself, look down on fame and fortune, and be grateful for encounters. Believe that everything you encounter in the present moment is the best arrangement given to you by God.
Take advantage of the bones, still tough, wait for the epidemic to pass, go out to see the great rivers and mountains, don't wait for one day can not move, and then regret.
Man, don't dwell too much, look down on everything, slowly realize, if many things can't be achieved, let go.
After walking for most of my life, I can let go of the past, that is, when I am old, I will live smart.
Conclusion:
Life is fleeting, and everything will be in the past.
When you are old, don't force it anymore, let everything go naturally, that is, do not add to your own troubles, or live with the situation.
Smart old people will not remember the past and worry about the future, but everything is based on making themselves happy.
Let life be simple, a book, a cup of tea, a quiet heart, is enough;
Let the mood be peaceful, able to understand, able to understand, be brave in life, enough;
Let the past let go, occasionally move forward, occasionally stop, and enjoy the scenery around you, it is enough.
The road of life, the change of time, the vicissitudes have traces.
Old, do not compete with fate, with a Cloud Water Zen heart, calm and elegant, let the days slow down a little, slow down a little, let the sunshine, warm a little, warm a little...
In this way, you have found the most beautiful scenery.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!