Anything in this world cannot be overstated, too deliberate, and there is a ruler for people, a degree for doing things, and a very important scale.
Some people like to go to extremes, not only will not let things develop in the good side, but will make things worse and out of control.
Therefore, smart people will not rush to achieve success, and they will not be angry, too radical things, they generally will not do.
People who are bent on controlling others and dominating the world may backfire, and the result will only be more than worth the loss and nothing will be achieved.
On the contrary, those who know how to go with the flow and seek to go with the flow of nature in everything can go with the flow and achieve great things.
Everything has its own trajectory, and everyone has their own way of doing things, and there is no need to deliberately do things that deviate from their hearts.
As an ordinary person, having a peaceful attitude is the most important, but unfortunately many people have not understood it, let alone can't do it.
These people will therefore have many troubles, endure a lot of stress, but eventually it will backfire, go against the grain, and exhaust themselves physically and mentally.
They seem to have completely forgotten their original intentions, forgotten the purpose of living, and forgotten that true happiness cannot be separated from peace of mind.
You must know that contentment and happiness and peace with encounters are the happy life models that can really be seen, touched, and grasped.
And those who just blindly pursue the general unrealistic goals of the mirage are often blind to the beauty and happiness in front of them.
Some people spend a lot of effort to pursue happiness, and after a big circle, they find that happiness has always been around them.
Therefore, peace of mind is the real source of happiness, and those who put happiness in the clouds may never get true happiness.
True happiness is actually very simple, that is, real, enough to keep, from the bottom of the heart of the satisfaction.
Needless to say, all happiness based on material things will be as short-lived as a short flower, and in the end it will only increase people's troubles and suffering.
In short, if you want to adapt to this world and feel a real sense of happiness from it, you must maintain a peaceful state of mind and keep a quiet state of mind.
In fact, true happiness does not need to be obtained in a special way, and there is no need to make every effort to deliberately pursue, but only to follow their own hearts.
Therefore, if you can maintain a peaceful state of mind, not sad or happy, keep the Yunshui Zen heart, not humble or profane, happiness will naturally come knocking at the door.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.