Text/July Chang'an
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Many people have a flaunting side.
When encountering happy events, they can't help but not only the joy in their hearts, but also publicize it in a high profile, and they are eager to shout with a loudspeaker to let the whole world know about ta's success.
Some people, on the other hand, are very silent, and this silence is not a taciturn personality, but a low-key behavior in silence, or accumulation of strength, or Taoguang and obscurity, or do not cause trouble, and continue to act towards their own goals.
This kind of person often belongs to the kind of person who is really powerful, and his success, his state of mind, is something you can never imagine.
01. Build strength in silence
I once heard such a sentence: "In the face of life like a huge wave, language is pale, and no matter how you shout, you can't compete with it, so only silence, only silence can make you accumulate strength and wait for the opportunity." ”
The argument is pale, and no matter how hysterical you are, you can't change a person's perception of you, and in the eyes of others, you are incompetent, and you are still incompetent after all.
The best way to fight back is to be silent, to hide everything silently in the heart, and to silently accumulate strength, so that there will be a chance to fight back.
The really powerful people understand this, their state of mind is as calm as water, the ridicule, the ridicule, but it is just a cloud of smoke, blowing, and then dissipating with the wind.
Firmly in my heart a goal, that is, from today onwards, accumulate strength, work hard, step by step, one day, will become a strong king.
Remember a classmate in high school, he was a very poor student from high school, in the eyes of the teacher, he was "low-energy", in the eyes of the classmates, he was hopeless, in the face of the teacher's shaking head and sighing, he suffered silently, in the face of the ridicule of his classmates, he was silent.
However, in the year of the college entrance examination, he played his best level and was admitted to a key university, which made teachers and classmates stunned.
In his own words: "I'm just learning silently, I know I'm stupid, but stupid birds can fly first, they can accumulate strength first, and I believe that one day I will succeed." 」 ”
Silent people, accumulating strength in silence, present themselves in front of others in the strongest posture, so that those who once laughed at you have no place for themselves.
02. Silence makes the mood calm
Silence is as plain as water in the state of mind, not stained with dust, even if the mood is chaotic, it will instantly calm down in a silent way.
The mind is sublimated in stillness, becoming more and more single-minded in silence, abandoning all distractions and moving towards its own goals.
Really powerful people, generally have a silent personality, maintain a calm heart in silence, face problems, will let themselves calm down, not rushed, from the chaotic thoughts to find a solution.
Silence is golden, silence is a kind of calmness in the state of mind, it is by no means depressed, but also muffled, but more to do, less useless words, with the most solid pace, out of the wonderful road of life.
A Zen master friend said: "In the chaotic red dust, it is best to be calm, otherwise it is easy to be affected by many external influences and it is not easy to succeed." ”
He did indeed do it, with a silent heart, in the face of the red dust of temptation, always living a light and monotonous life, taking pleasure in reciting the scriptures all day long, understanding the true meaning of life, even though there were many temptations in the outside world, but he was indifferent, and finally became a very respected local wise man.
Powerful people, the state of mind is always calm as water, with silence as the scale, not impatient, in the quiet to seek the way to survive.
3. People who are really powerful are often silent
There's a saying that goes like this: "Either take on it or break through, and the rest of the time is to be silent about what you're going through." One day, you will find the way and the answer in this silence. ”
In fact, people want to have the happiest life, but there are many people who do not want to bear, do not want to break through, and do not want to remain silent quietly, because TA always lacks the courage of self-confidence, lacks a motivation to self-reflect in silence, so in the world of TA, it is always frizzy, disorderly, and the road taken is just a vain walk.
And the really powerful people, in silence to seek the calmness of the state of mind, the road of life, no matter how winding and rugged, will one day become a flat road, because the heart is like a rock, not affected by the wind and rain, always maintain the original intention, towards the road of dreams, has been moving forward.
They take silence as their cultivation, do not talk much, do not cause trouble, walk in a low profile, silently keep their own peaceful happiness, whether brilliant or poor, the happiness of the state of mind is to overcome everything.
Silence is golden, silence is a kind of life cultivation, silence can make people calm down instantly, after calming down, you can conduct self-reflection in order to seek a better way out.
May you also be a silent person, of course, silence is not afraid of things, not cowardice, but in silence to accumulate strength, maintain a calm attitude, sooner or later, one day, you will successfully reach the top.
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