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Someone once said: The so-called fate is the reason for the success of love and the excuse for failure.
People's feelings are an inexplicable and unclear thing, and many times people spend most of their time and energy on things that they can't get, and persistently pursue.
And often ignore what has been obtained, miss it to know regret, perhaps it is too late.
The same is true for love, if you want to judge whether two people are true love, you can try to break the connection, and you will know it in one test.
1, people always know how to cherish after losing
People with rich feelings always look very dramatic, often sad and sad, like to lament the unsatisfactory in life, the more they love and can't help it, the more they can't let go of obsession.
In love, if you look closely, you will find that the more you are good to a person, the more he does not take you seriously, the more he is accommodating, and the less he calls the other party's heart.
However, if one day your attitude changes drastically, no longer take the initiative, no longer please, but will get the attention of the other party.
This is something that conforms to the characteristics of human nature, people are always calculating between gains and losses, afraid that what they get is not the best, and want to find more ideals.
Love is like picking up leaves in a ginkgo forest, each leaf is different, no one is the most beautiful, as long as you find your favorite, it is the best.
If you have picked up a piece of your favorite, but did not cherish it, look back and look for it, maybe you can no longer find it, such a result will be painful.
Why do people always know how to cherish after losing? From a psychological point of view, the pain of loss is far more impactful and intense than the joy of gain.
2, love or not love, the feeling after disconnection can tell you the answer
In the TV series "Xiao min's family", Liu Xiaomin and her boyfriend Chen Zhuo both had a failed marriage, and the two met at a hometown meeting.
Liu Xiaomin is smart and beautiful, Chen Zhuo has a good feeling for her, although Chen Zhuo's ex-wife is Liu Xiaomin's hair small, they also had concerns, but in getting along, they like each other more and more, and slowly the two come together.
The son suddenly came to Beijing from his hometown, disrupting the rhythm of Liu Xiaomin's life, she did not want her son to know the fact that he had a boyfriend, but also worried about the awkward relationship between the two families, after several thoughts and struggles, Liu Xiaomin proposed to break up.
As a man, Chen Zhuo wanted to show some decency, and although he was reluctant in his heart, he still pretended to agree freely.
Probably at that time, both of them thought it was no big deal, and that breaking up was something they could bear.
In the year after the breakup, the two had almost no contact, but neither of them forgot each other, and thoughts often stung the hearts of the two.
Occasionally learn the news of the other party, although worried, but also to restrain their emotions.
Chen Zhuo's self-employed company collapsed, and all kinds of dissatisfaction came to him, and he finally plucked up his courage after drinking and came to Xiao Min's downstairs.
He confessed affectionately to Liu Xiaomin: "You must know that this year is so difficult, and you will not break up when you die." ”
In this year, Liu Xiaomin did not miss Chen Zhuo every day, and the pain of loss often haunted her heart, but she did not dare to touch it.
It was also this loss that made the two more deeply appreciate how important the other party was in their hearts.
From this point of view, the opposite sex gets along, love or not love, the feeling when disconnected can give a clear answer, the person who really loves each other can not forget each other, and the heart can not tolerate others.
3, do not let love go far
Is it true love, to listen to their own inner voice, lover, there is no good or bad, only suitable and inappropriate, suitable is the best.
When disconnected for a period of time, you will receive the most authentic feelings from the bottom of your heart, love or no love, at a glance, and never be confused again.
Sometimes, temporary loss is to have better.
Many times, when we have it, we don't feel precious, think everything, and worry about it, so that love stagnates.
After the loss, regain this love, you will find that at this time, you are brave a lot, nothing can stop you from being together, this is the power that love should have.
Love is feeling, cherishing is behavior, believing in your own feelings, respecting each other's intentions.
If you love, please love deeply, don't let the person who loves you be sad, don't let the love that belongs to you go far.
When a person falls in love with another person, and it happens that the person is also in love with himself, for a relationship, this is the most happy ending.
It is a kind of luck to meet love, and it is an ability to dare to love and love.