Recently, the popular TV series "Xiao MinJia" is believed to have been watched by many people.
One of the characters is Xiaomin's mother, Wang Sumin, who said a sentence to her daughter on the phone that impressed me very much.
At that time, the plot was that Chen Tianfu, the father of Xiaomin's former boyfriend, went to her house as a guest.
Seeing that Wang Sumin was washing bamboo shoots, he wanted to stay and eat, and asked Wang Sumin if he could add more rice, he wanted to rub a meal.
Later, after Chen Tianfu left, Wang Sumin called her daughter and said that Chen Tianfu had come to the house and had eaten, and said that he wanted to make a friend with her, and whether he could come back to dinner in the future.
Wang Sumin said to Xiao Min, "Do you know why I don't look for these old men?" They just wanted someone to serve him. ”
Although Wang Sumin's words do not represent all male middle-aged and elderly people, at least this situation is still in our lives.
I know a neighbor uncle nearby, 67 years old this year, this year found two old partners, are in charge of food and control, nothing else.
Some neighbors said how he didn't find a nanny who took care of him for a long time.
He said that finding a nanny would not only have to take care of food and housing, but also have to spend a lot of money.
Like him, if you give something emotionally, you will not only get the benefits financially, but you will also have someone to serve, killing two birds with one stone.
The key is that he is looking for a good idea, and people are willing to follow him.
So when I say Wang Sumin's words, it is simply sober in the world.
In our lives, although there are old men like neighbors who love to calculate, there are also people who really meet true love in their later years.
The father of one of my friends, at the age of 63, found another old partner.
The relationship between the two old people has passed for 5 years and is still very good, and the children of both sides get along very well.
When the two were together, they each arranged their own property ownership, as well as their own arrangements after illness or a hundred years.
So both sides live together, and there is not much selfishness and concern.
And no matter what the two do, they are together, and there is no such thing as saying that you take care of me and I take care of you.
Because since two people choose to be companions in their later years, it means that they are going to take care of each other.
If one party selfishly thinks that the other party should take care of him, it is difficult to find a wife who treats you sincerely with such preconceived ideas.
In the middle and late years, people must find someone who is really in line with their own soul, not just to find a partner and find someone to talk to.
If you only want to have someone standing by your side, it is better not to look for it.
There is a saying on the Internet: "If after two people are together, you feel that you are not as happy as when you are alone, then why should you find another person to drag yourself down." ”
Therefore, even if we are old, to the middle and late age class, we must prefer to be absent rather than indiscriminate.
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