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Missing this emotion is inexplicable, but when it rises, it completely dominates our emotions, interferes with our hearts, and cannot calm down.
People have never experienced the feeling of missing into the bone in this life, and it is quite regrettable that the psychology is completely filled by one person, and the feeling of cutting the stomach of the other party is only understood by those who have really experienced it.
Even if he is not around, he has always been hidden in your heart, always haunting your heart, and it is difficult to smooth out for a long time.
There is a person living in the heart, there is a person to worry about, it is also a very happy thing, at least you will not feel empty, there is a thought, but also enough to resist the ordinary flow of years, let us fall in love with it.
There is a kind of miss, only dare to pay silent attention behind his back, you have no contact with his identity, there is no qualification to care about him, even if you are surging with sugar inside, on the surface you can only pretend to be indifferent.
Such a crush is very poignant, and in this story, you are the only one from beginning to end. No matter how deeply you have a crush on him, he never knows it.
There is also a person's miss that will never be hidden. Once the acacia is in the mind, it will be expressed regardless of disregard, and I want the other party to know a lot of fleshy love words for the first time, and I can pour out at any time, I will take the initiative to appear in front of him, and I want to be with him all the time.
Such a surging thought, although admirable, but if you are too naked, you take him too seriously, will only reduce your status in his mind. It sounds cruel, but it's true. When a woman is too proactive and too blunt, men generally don't look up to you and don't pity you.
Therefore, many times when you miss a person again, don't take the initiative to contact, and silently doing these things can attract his attention.
Pretend to inadvertently brush up on the sense of presence in his world
When you miss someone, don't take the initiative to contact, but it does not mean inaction.
If you don't do anything, it's hard to get his attention. Because there are all kinds of people coming and going in his world every day, if you are slow to move, it is easy to be attracted to others, and then you will regret it too late, and you will be completely eliminated from his world.
You have to inadvertently refresh your sense of existence in his world, but pretend to be unconscious, don't be too rich in your heart, if you are too blunt, not only will not achieve the effect of making him pay attention to you, but it may even make him bored.
There are many ways to brush the sense of presence. You can do this both online and offline. For example, if you send some dynamics that are only visible to him, occasionally give him a thumbs up for their dynamics, don't be too frequent, too frequent, it is easy to enrich your heart.
Pretending to inadvertently create some occasional encounters, going to the occasions he often goes, it is easy to pull into the distance between each other.
Like Xu Zheng in "Xiao Min's House", he successfully attracted Liu Xiaojie's attention by frequently brushing his sense of existence in front of Liu Xiaojie. Of course, some of his behaviors are not worth advocating, but we can learn some positive points.
You can create some parties through your mutual friends and give you opportunities to get along, but don't be too proactive in the whole process, show your personal charm freely, and point to the end.
When you appear in his world more often, it is difficult not to notice you.
After getting to know him, reveal the same interests as him and make him interested in you
Refreshing existence in a man's world, just getting him to notice your first steps, is definitely not going to be the key to your attraction to him.
Because there are people coming and going every day in our world, but not everyone can have a story. Those that can be related are all similar to some extent.
For men to be able to enter the atrium of their hearts, it is necessary to have common interests, which is very critical.
Men who choose the other half must be able to play with them and have a common language. The two of them are people from completely different worlds, so obviously there will be no strings attached.
I have a friend who has successfully won over men by exposing the same interests and hobbies as boys.
Learn that men like to play a certain game, she practiced hard day and night, just to be able to enter his world, men like a singer, she listened to the singer's songs, but also often released in social software playlists, attracting men's attention, she also deliberately studied the industry that men are engaged in, using their own connections and resources to pull customers for him, the distance between men and her is getting closer and closer, and it is logical to come together.
With the same interests and hobbies, with common topics, you have successfully opened up the heart of a man.
Strive to improve yourself, cultivate your temperament from the inside out, and let him unconsciously fall in love
No matter how much homework you have done in front of you, the best place to stay is to return to yourself.
Love boils down to being a game of mutual attraction, not a game where you can get his heart by repeatedly paying for him again and again.
Some of the efforts are very cheap, others can do it, then it will not highlight your importance. Only by using your own personality charm to attract each other to conquer each other is the long-term solution.
Men are very realistic creatures, how long he will love you depends entirely on your personal value, the more valuable you are, he will love you.
So if you want a man to wait for you to fall in love with, you must learn to improve your temperament from the inside out. Men like to look at beautiful women, but they pay more attention to women's abilities and inner strengths, and you need to work on both.
First of all, work hard from the outside, let yourself become more and more exquisite, more and more beautiful, do not need to wear how luxurious clothes, just need to find a suitable style for yourself, simple and generous.
The most important thing is to improve their professional ability and enhance their inner temperament. Do more things that can improve yourself, and when you get better and better, men will naturally fall for you.
Of course, some people may feel that feelings are to be bluntly revealed, like is to like, miss is to miss, do not hide.
Of course, there is a certain truth to this, if you keep hiding your mind, then the other party will not know.
Occasionally we also have to learn to bravely express our likes and misses. When you think about him, just tell him that I miss you very much, and sometimes it's more effective than vaguely hinting at the other person.
But this way is good to use occasionally, or to use some more advanced ways, in order to be able to continue to get the man's heart. Sometimes it's not a good thing that you're being too blunt.
It is better to spend more time focusing on yourself than blindly following this set. Make yourself better and better, this thing never expires.