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Men and women who are close to each other will be a cramping and peeling reveal, and will completely expose their most complete appearance to each other, and with the deepening of understanding, the degree of exposure will be more profound and difficult to hide.
In the beginning, we will all consciously selectively conceal, will show our best appearance in front of each other, and those shortcomings and weaknesses will try to hide as much as possible.
Love will make people unconsciously take off their disguises, take off their masks, completely undefended against each other, you are in front of her, you are not willing to have the slightest cover-up, a lot of behavior, are unconsciously flowing out.
On the surface, men look very mature and stable, a look that can bear everything and can be completely relied on by their lovers, but in fact, when you approach him, you will find that men also have weaknesses, and they are sometimes very vulnerable, even more fragile than women.
If a man has no weakness and is always a hard and cold look in front of you, 80% of it means that he is not sincere with you. Once deeply in love, these weaknesses will be unconsciously exposed.
Sensitive and suspicious, careful with eyes, jealous
Mention sensitive and suspicious, careful eyes such words, we will be the first time to target women, indeed women will easily show such a side, once in love with a person, will inspire love to be jealous, careful eyes.
They tend to regard love as their whole, completely base their lives on men, and completely integrate with his life, and do not want to be alienated in the slightest. This is a common phenomenon in women.
But this is definitely not the exclusive attribute of women, once a man completely falls in love with a person, after completely engaged in a love, it is inevitable to stimulate such a state.
Don't look at them as if they were very generous, they don't care about anything, it's actually just because they haven't triggered his nerves, they don't care completely. If you care, you will become less like yourself.
In "My Ideal Life", Bai Xiangwen was originally a very dashing person, he was a chef, often traveled the world, would not stay in a city, drifted around, and rarely spent a long time in a city.
When he fell in love with Wen Ruxue, the previous dashing completely disappeared, and he became a careful-eyed, jealous person, willing to stay in a city for her, tied up by marriage.
Because she cares too much, she does a lot of unpleasant things, tracks Wen Ruxue to her colleagues' gatherings, and forces her to give up her career and return to her family. Interfering with his relationship with the opposite sex, although it is very unspoiling, but it is all traces of love.
The careful side of men will only be displayed in front of the woman they love deeply, don't be unaware.
Frustration and stress at work
Men are very strong, love face, and are easily unwilling to expose their fragile appearance.
No matter how much setbacks you suffer on the outside and how unhappy you are at work, you will silently digest them, unwilling to show them in front of others, unwilling to let people close to you worry about themselves, and unwilling to endure the sympathetic eyes of others.
They pretend to be strong and habitual, so that we ignore that in fact, they are only mortals, only flesh and blood, how can they be indestructible? How can there be no stress?
Deep love will completely trust, will be willing to completely expose all their grievances and repression, will not be afraid of being looked down upon by the other party, will not have too much scruples, and are willing to completely show their truest side to each other.
"Little Joy" in the middle-aged unemployment, for this age group, is a major blow. At the beginning, I didn't want Tong Wenjie to know that she still came out early and returned late every day, and maintained the state when she went to work.
Every day, he also needs to pretend to be indifferent in front of the family, in fact, the most stressful and sad is himself. Finally, after one drunken drink, the frustration and pressure in his heart were completely released, and at that moment he felt that the two of them were closer.
A man's strength is always shown to outsiders, a fragile look, only in front of the woman he loves deeply, I hope you can give him more understanding and support.
Suffering from gain and loss, fear of loss
Loving someone will trigger a feeling of fear, for fear that it will break her heart, that it will make her angry, and that one day she will suddenly leave herself.
There is a saying that goes like this: It's good that you're gone, otherwise I'm always worried that you'll leave. I guess this is the feeling that everyone who is completely in love with will have.
Sometimes it feels like he's close to him, but sometimes it feels far away. You will be very careful in getting along, and you want to use all your strength to love her and care for her. I was afraid that I would not give her enough, so that she thought that love was just like that.
Feelings are often very unequal, the one who loves deeply will pay a little more, and they are more afraid of losing, and the favored party will have no fear. Because for this, even if it is lost, it is not a big deal, there will be no ripples.
But for the deep side of love, there is no way to accept separation, for him, face self-esteem is not important, what is important is that as long as you are around, after satisfying this, let him do more willingly.
Everyone thinks that men are affectionate, but in fact, it is not that he is not affectionate, but because he is not loving enough, and the affectionate side will only be displayed in front of the women he loves deeply.
Men suffer in front of you, and that's because he really loves you and is really afraid of losing you.
A man's weaknesses will only be shown in front of the woman he loves deeply, and if you are lucky enough to see it, there is no doubt that he really loves you.
If you've never met a man all these years, it's clear that you're not the one he loves deeply, not deep inside him.
Everyone has a different side, in front of outsiders, we will all hide something, only in front of the closest and most trusted people, will expose the most authentic appearance.
Two people who love each other deeply are willing to expose their weaknesses, and they are also willing to accept each other's weaknesses, and they will feel more sorry for her and love her more because they see each other's weaknesses.
When you meet a man who is willing to expose the most authentic appearance to you, cherish it, meet the woman who is willing to accept your vulnerability, warm you with deeper love, and care for you, don't miss it, she really loves you.
Hopefully, we can all have the privilege of loving and being loved.