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Human interaction is a science that requires us to spend our whole lives learning.
Some people are often very real in their hearts, in the process of interacting with people, never know how to keep a heart eye, have always adhered to the principle of treating people with kindness, it is easy to take out their lungs out of people, mistakenly regard everyone around them as good people, you feel that people are sincerely changing hearts, as long as you are sincere to others, you will be able to get the same treatment from others.
It is a good thing to feel that human nature is good and to maintain a certain innocence to this society, at least to prove that you have not been beaten by society. But blindly maintaining innocence and not discriminating between the people around you, it is often you who suffer losses in the end.
In life, we will meet all kinds of people, some of these people are worth our hearts and lungs, in the face of such people, you can be unguarded, as much as you want to pay for her, and your kindness will certainly be able to exchange for each other's cherishing.
But some people are not worthy of your good at all, you are good to them, and it is easy to bite you back and hurt you in the end.
We do not hurt people, but we cannot be undefended to everyone, treat some people sincerely, and finally get not good rewards, but hurt.
Some people have a very bad heart, they often use their hearts and eyes on the people around them, the better you are to him, the more he will use your kindness to use, once they encounter something, they will immediately turn their faces and not recognize people.
Such people usually have some common characteristics, as long as you are careful, you can find that in the face of people with bad eyes, you should stay away in time, reduce contacts, and break off relations.
Selfish and calculating
In the end, everyone will have their own selfish intentions, and when they encounter problems, they will first think of themselves, which is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it.
No one is stupid enough to think of others in everything without considering their own interests. If we can't do it ourselves, we can't ask others for it.
It is just that selfishness has certain limits, and the premise for being good for oneself must be that in the case of not harming others, in dealing with others, it is still necessary to think more about others, not always start from interests, and be able to maintain great kindness and be generous to others, so that there can be a deeper connection.
Extremely selfish people, their hearts and eyes are very bad, and the starting point of everything they do must be based on profit. Anyone who will hinder their interests will become a thorn in their side, and will do whatever it takes to get their own interests.
Wen Xin in "The Sea of Stars" is such a person, and she has always regarded Jane Ai as a thorn in her eyes. In order to get her own interests, she will not hesitate to betray Jane Eyre, the starting point of her doing things, everything is for her own sake, and she will not consider the feelings of others at all. Taking profit as the standard, being good at calculation, everything that comes to mind is always only oneself, so he will not hesitate to give up his affection and give up the bottom line of being a person.
In the end, Out of kindness, Jane Ai let her come to her company, but in the end, she obstructed and wanted to send Jane Eyre to prison, such a person is not worth interacting with at all, and one day it will hurt you.
Be polite on the surface and say bad things about you behind your back
There are some people who show their dislike and dissatisfaction with you on their faces, and such people often like to go straight and never know how to hide it. Although they don't like you, it's simple and straightforward, and it won't hurt you.
People live in this world, it is impossible to ask everyone to like us, some people like you will be some people hate you, this is for sure. We are not afraid of other people's dislike of us, not afraid of those who can't get along with themselves on the surface, such people often have no heart, a big grin, and don't have to be scrupulous.
The so-called "open gun is easy to hide from the dark arrow is difficult to defend", afraid of those who are superficially set behind the scenes, they are polite to you on the surface, and maintain relatively close contacts with you, and when you completely let go of your defenses, they will stab you in the back and let you be careless.
We must beware of those who say bad things about you behind your back, such people often do not see others well, seem to be kind, in fact, they have a very bad heart, they know how to win over and buy people's hearts, they spread unfavorable remarks against you everywhere behind their backs, and they unite everyone to isolate you, but on the surface they still pretend to be harmless to people and animals.
In getting along with people, we must keep an eye on it, do not be confused by superficial illusions, and know how to stay away from those who say bad things about people behind their backs, who may say bad things about others and will treat you like this one day.
The heart is dark, always thinking of the heart in a bad place
Some people tend to be very dark in their hearts, always like to think of people in a bad place, obviously others may not think much, but they always like to carry other people's hearts behind their backs, it is easy to think about it.
Maybe others just look at him one more time, they will guess in their hearts whether he has any opinions on themselves, maybe some people just stopped talking when he passed by, he will feel that others are talking about him, they are often very sensitive and suspicious in their hearts, everything always likes to think on a bad level, and there is no sunshine in their hearts.
It is easy to misinterpret the intentions of others, obviously sometimes others may be kind to help you, but here they will be infinitely magnified, thinking that others are scorning you, pity you, look down on you.
Those who have a dark heart, their hearts and eyes are often very bad, obviously they have ghosts in their own hearts, but they often push them on others, and they are always full of complaints about the world, and the people around them are always unable to let go of the atrium, and it is difficult to treat people sincerely.
People who are easy to distort the good intentions of others often reflect their inner thoughts on the side, and it is precisely because they are dark inside that they see that others are dark. Such a person must know how to break the connection, and perhaps in his heart, he also feels that you are a shady person.
In getting along with people, keep an eye on everything and learn to protect yourself. We don't hurt others, but we don't want to be treated like fools.
If we don't discriminate between those around us, we are likely to be used by people with hearts and thus hurt you.
In most cases, people's hearts are exchanged for sincerity, but it does not mean that all sincerity can be treated properly. You have to leave your heart to those who deserve it, and stay away from those who will use you to hurt you.
People with bad hearts and eyes will have commonalities, you should carefully observe in life, for those who have the above performances, don't come and go anymore, and it is wise to break off diplomatic relations in time.