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The matter of love can be said to be a compulsory course in our lives.
However, not everyone can open the right way to love.
Especially for women, if you can't tell the love of a man, then the last person to be hurt can only be yourself.
Just like the recent hit "Heart Residence", Ge Yue in the play can be said to love Gu Xin to the extreme, but Gu Xin's attitude towards Ge Yue is getting cooler and cooler.
In this marriage, not only are the family conditions of the two people not equal, but even the efforts of each other are also very different.
Until Gu Xin was imprisoned later, Ge Yue was still thinking about Gu Xin.
I have to say that meeting the right person is happiness; meeting the wrong person is the abyss.
Lin Qingxuan once said: "The beginning of love is a look, and the end of love is the endless sky." ”
Deeply believed, the beginning and end of love, in an instant.
Women want to judge whether a man really loves you, just look at these two behaviors.
1, love a person, the eyes can not be hidden
It is often said that those who love you are full of love for you; those who do not love you have eyes full of rejection.
I deeply agree with this, and women can judge their love for you through the eyes of men.
There is a saying: "You who are not good at words, are you always misunderstood, you have to believe that someone will understand you only because of one look." ”
It is true that there are some things that do not need to be said to others, and those who understand you naturally understand, and those who do not understand you do not need to explain.
Generally speaking, a man who loves you will have two manifestations, so that you can tell from the look in his eyes whether the other person loves you or not.
First of all, one of the most common manifestations is that if he truly loves you, he will put all his attention on you in many situations of the opposite sex.
One is to keep you from being jealous, and the other is that he only has you in his heart.
Moreover, in addition to showing extra attention to you, there is also an overlooked way of expressing it, that is, the other party's caution.
Probably, in many cases, you will find that when you meet a man who has a good feeling for you, he not only does not take the initiative, but when you look at him, he will also look away, which is not that he does not love you, but that he loves you too much and feels that he is not worthy of you.
Sometimes, adult love does not need to be vigorous, but silently guarded.
Therefore, if you meet a man who has the above two kinds of eyes for you, you must cherish it.
2, talk and demeanor, through the respect for you
There is a saying: "Respect for others is respect for yourself, respect is not giving but gaining." ”
Deeply believed, especially in love.
A person who truly loves you will not make you feel uncomfortable, but will take into account your feelings everywhere and show you respect.
Recently, I saw a video online.
In the video, the man takes his girlfriend home, but the other party's family conditions are not very good, so before seeing the other party's home, he seems very anxious and restrained.
Later, in order to reassure the girls, the man Kochi had a big family and said that he had brought his girlfriend home.
There is a scene of a man proposing marriage with a family.
I have to say that this is the best confession to girls. Because she was worried that the girl was too nervous, she dispelled her concerns about her family and let the whole family send blessings to themselves.
This is a respect for the girl, but also a concern for her.
So, don't feel that men are inherently careless, and if the "he" you meet often ignores your feelings, don't feel that he is careless, but that he has not taken you to heart at all.
People who truly love you will reveal respect for you in their words and deeds.
3, only love you, will become careful
The person who loves you will start to become cautious.
Because I am worried that you are not happy, that you are too sensitive, and that I am afraid that my behavior will make you feel dissatisfied, I will guard you with my own meticulousness.
As the saying goes, "The more you care, the more careful you are." ”
Deeply believed, the synonym of love is care, only care, will give you meticulous care.
In the TV series "Sea of Stars", Li Yiming's love for Jane Ai is like this.
Li Yiming has loved Jane Eyre since he was a child, but the other party does not love Li Yiming.
Therefore, Li Yiming has always played the role of a "flower protector" around Jane Ai.
He opened a garment factory not only for his own career, but also to fulfill Jane Eyre.
Even when Wen Xin and Jane Ai have conflicts of interest, he will firmly stand on Jane Ai's side.
Jane Ai understood Li Yiming's intentions, and after she refused a few times, Li Yiming accompanied her in a protective way.
I have to say that this kind of love is indeed affectionate.
Even if you can't get a response from the other party, but because of love, always guard, this is true love.
Xiaoyuan's message: A man who truly loves you will not let you think wildly, and will not turn a blind eye to a woman's love.
Many times, instead of listening to a man's love words, it is better to watch what he has done.
Loving someone cannot be hidden, and not loving a person is also very obvious.
As adults, we should have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and how men treat you, to a large extent, determines how much the other party loves you.
For the rest of your life, may all you encounter love and encourage!
Topic: How do you think a man truly loves you?
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