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The other day, call home.
Originally, I wanted to ask my grandparents how they were doing, but in the end, it became my grandmother who forced me to ask me "when to find a boyfriend".
I have a net refusal in my mouth, because, at my age, I always think that time is still long, learning and career are more important, and now I don't need love.
I heard that several cousins are going to get married next year, and I feel a little envious in my heart, because their love has begun since they were students.
However, for me, I did not seize the opportunity and will not take the initiative now.
In fact, love, for many people, is both an expectation and a luxury.
In the world, the chances of encountering true love are really small. Especially for women, when they meet someone they love, they always hide their intentions because they are afraid of rejection.
In the end, it has to lose love.
Some people say: "People are like this, always think that love is inseparable, but there is no love of love, even if the white head and the old man, what is the use?" ”
That's why we become cautious in love. However, in love, men will "not refuse" to women at these 3 nodes, I hope you don't miss it.
1. At the low point of his career
Some people say: "Long affection is companionship, companionship is confession." ”
Deeply believed, companionship is the best confession for a person, and it is also a sign of the beginning of a love.
In the public perception, "fragility" and "insecurity" are manifestations of women, but they often ignore men's feelings.
In fact, our stereotypes often cause us to misunderstand others, especially in love.
In real life, men are not as powerful as we think. When he was at the low point of his career, it was also the time when he needed comfort in his heart the most.
Everyone knows about Liang Jiahui, but when it comes to Jiang Jianian, few people know.
The two of them are husband and wife. At the beginning, when Liang Jiahui was at the low point of his career, he was so poor that he could not even afford a wedding ring. However, Jiang Jianian resolutely wanted to marry him and give him support and encouragement.
At that time, Liang Jiahui was forced by the director to make a "bad film", or Jiang Jianian went to negotiate alone. All that his wife did for herself was remembered by Liang Jiahui.
Therefore, after Liang Jiahui finally became famous, he did not abandon his wife, but instead gave each other a large diamond ring every wedding anniversary.
This, perhaps, is evidence of love.
It can be seen that a man who can stay with you until he is old. It is not that you loved him when he became famous, but that you can still stay away from him when his career is at a low point.
That was the main reason he didn't refuse.
2, when he is lost in love and sad
There is a saying: "Everyone must lose love, and children who do not lose love will not grow up." Every love film must lose love, and the love that does not lose love has no point of view. ”
Indeed, most people have experienced lovelessness. It's just that some people can get out quickly, while some people have been stuck in the memories of the past and can't extricate themselves.
The public thinks that men can be obsessed with love, and they can also be very desperate. Therefore, for men with clear love, do not try to deceive their feelings, but learn to soothe their sad emotions.
Therefore, when a man is sad about the loss of love, it is also the time when he needs the most attention. Because, after being rejected by the person he loves, what he wants is a love that can soothe his sorrows.
Just like Li Yiming in "The Sea of Stars", the person he loves has always been Jane Eyre. He has also expressed his love for Jane Eyre in many ways, but he is bitter that Jane Eyre does not love him.
Therefore, when he confessed to Jane Eyre, he was cruelly rejected by Jane Eyre.
He became particularly decadent as a result and did not go to work. When Wenxin knew about Li Yiming's current situation, she resolutely chose to accompany him, and even paid her own money to support Li Yiming's entrepreneurship.
For Wenxin's initiative, Li Yiming did not immediately refuse, but chose to default to Wenxin's goodness to himself.
I have to say that men can choose to be with each other even if they don't like a person. Because what they want is always inner peace.
But if there is a person who can understand and understand themselves, it is difficult for them to reject men. That is the reality.
3. When he lost his relatives and friends
Everyone has seven passions and six desires, but some people will deliberately hide, while others are overflowing with words.
The collapse of men, many times in an instant. Therefore, when you see your beloved man, losing your relatives and friends, remember to give him a care.
Because, when a person's emotions are most fragile, his perception of the warmth of the outside world will also be stronger.
Haruki Murakami said, "The days that I thought I couldn't get out of, now I can't go back." ”
It is true that the days when men cannot walk out are just waiting for a person to redeem themselves.
I had seen a story about a man who had lost his wife, languished all day, and often wept alone in dark corners.
Because he didn't want others to see his vulnerability, and he didn't want a family to lose its main heart, he took on everything alone.
At first, he decided not to marry again. However, after meeting a woman, I was still touched by the care and warmth of the other party.
It is said that women are sensual. In fact, the same is true of men.
When your emotional needs are met, you will still run to your own happiness. This is the essence of all things changing, and it is also the complexity of the human heart.
Don't try to impress a person with love, because love, not only to have love, but also to grasp the right time.
Wise people can always have happiness.
Xiaoyuan's message: A man's heart is difficult to guess.
However, their emotional needs have never been lacking. Good feelings always require someone to take the initiative.
In the public perception, it will be believed that men take the initiative is the right solution. In fact, women's initiative often achieves a good relationship.
After walking a lot of roads, you will find that two people who do not take the initiative, even if they love each other, it is difficult to come together. This is the reality, don't believe it.
For the rest of your life, I hope you and I will be an active woman and find our own happiness. Share!
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