The brothers had gone, as if in B.C. I don't know what year it was when I returned home today.
By old tree painting
Draft 502
Some time ago, I was talking about a topic: What is the meaning of lost love?
I have seen many very interesting answers: bye bye bye, bye bye bye, bye Break up and break up, and there will be... Wait a minute.
Many people are hoping to get rid of the pain of breaking up by quickly entering the next relationship, but in fact, if the previous relationship has not been completely put down, then the relationship presents an unfair situation at the beginning.
I once wrote a text on another platform: the next boy I meet may have to wronged you, oh, you may have to take care of me more carefully, love me, in order to make me more secure.
In fact, when I wrote this passage, I also wrote it unintentionally, and there was no other meaning. We all go through a lot of emotional things to really be happy, and of course if the first person you meet is the person who gives you happiness, it shows that you're really lucky.
So, during that time, there were all kinds of Internet violence, what feminism, scumbags, what to do, etc., every day I would see such comments, and even private messages similar to this kind of discourse.
In fact, when the pain of the relationship is restored, we need to spend more time to see our own needs, to ponder the gains and losses in this relationship, and to plan how to go in the future.
Both boys and girls want to meet the right soul, whether you have other requirements for the other half, but at least the soul must be suitable.
Every couple who are separated for various reasons will tell some stories that are beneficial to themselves after separation, but please believe that if you really want to get out of such a dilemma early, we should take a serious and objective look at these gains and losses.
The reason why we start and end emotionally, in the beginning, is always attracted to a particular point, so that we ignore other aspects that really affect our being together.
For example, if you think that you love each other enough, long-distance love is actually not a big problem; as long as you are tolerant enough, all aspects of the so-called inappropriateness can be ignored; as long as you get forgiveness, you will definitely be reconciled...
It's just that all the separations have been premeditated for a long time, and you're hard-pressed to find one that allows you to continue as if nothing had happened.
Like, your last relationship was separated by splitting legs, and the feelings behind you, whether they are the same person or not, you will have a lingering feeling, whether in the end you feel that you are the one who deserves it.
I don't recommend getting out of a broken relationship in any way, without a strong enough psychology or enough understanding of what the problem is that led to the breakup. Then, the next relationship will still be planted in the same place.
What has happened, it is difficult for us normal people to forcibly delete the memory of this part of the experience, and even if those memories are forgotten in the mind, the body will not. Therefore, many people will use their work to fill all their time after falling out of love, or they will fill up all their time through other means.
No matter what kind of way, feelings have always allowed you to continue to have the ability to love, and our life is actually constantly wandering on the road of gain and loss.
All separations are for us to learn to say goodbye to likes, to learn to live peacefully with sadness, to learn to accept all our good and bad emotions, and to give ourselves a little time to face bravely and calmly deal with them, so that you will find that life is more and more interesting.
And the above, perhaps, is the meaning of the loss of love.
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About the author: Da Miao, working hard to live in a small southern town,
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