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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
In reality, many men find it difficult to pursue women, and it is a pity that they are afraid to act slowly, resulting in missed opportunities.
In fact, if you want to catch up with the woman you like, it is really not difficult, the key is to grasp the timing, only at the right time, to do the right thing, can you do more with less.
When men pursue women, they must understand this trick, that is, when women are most vulnerable, give her care and care, so that she can quickly make her feel good about you.
Because, when women are most vulnerable, they are often the most emotionally sensitive, and they urgently need someone to care for and accompany them, which can bring them inner warmth.
Therefore, in pursuit of women, we must learn to break through her heart defenses, and specifically pick her most vulnerable time to pursue, it is easy for her to rely on you.
If the timing is not right, even if you give the woman more things and make a lot of effort, she may not be moved.
So, men have to learn, a good way to take down a woman: master three times.
First, in the dead of night, give her care in time
Women's emotions, generally show the most sensitive at night, but also particularly fragile, can not withstand the men's love words to stir.
At this time, you take more time to chat with her, accompany her to relieve her boredom, let her feel the warmth of being accompanied, and her heart will frantically breed ambiguous feelings.
Why does night chat with a woman make her feel excited quickly? In fact, women are very lonely at this time, often lonely and sleepless, and they are particularly needed for the care of feelings.
And what a man has to do is to play the role of pampering her, so that she feels the warmth of the heart, as long as you continue to care for and care for her, you can offset her inner loneliness.
Once a woman becomes dependent on you, she will expect more from you, and natural feelings will take a step forward.
When a man is quiet in the middle of the night, it is best to fix the time of chatting with a woman, let her form a habit, once the habit is formed, every night at this point, she will wait for you to come to her.
Moreover, when a man chats with a woman at night, it is best to talk more about emotional topics, so that he can quickly enter her heart.
Because, when a woman is at night, her emotions are very fragile, and when she hears the topic of love, as well as beautiful love words, etc., she will think of wrongdoing, and she can't help but substitute herself into it.
Men may wish to say more love words, talk more about love experiences and opinions, and intentionally or unintentionally guide women to talk about her feelings, when she has the desire to talk to you, you are half successful.
After all, when a woman is able to open up to you, it means that she treats you as the most trusted person and thinks you know her well.
In the process of chatting, you should give her a timely response, constantly care for her, comfort her, and let you always feel your love.
In this way, she will feel very warm in her heart, and her good feelings for you will become stronger and stronger, and eventually she will form dependence, quietly breeding feelings, eager to fall in love with you.
Therefore, men pursuing women, must find the right time, specifically choose to chat with women at night, talk more about emotions, talk more about love, give her care, dispel the loneliness in her heart, and believe that she will soon accept you.
Second, when she is single at night, take the initiative to escort her home
A woman, there are always times when they are single, especially at night, when they need someone to care the most.
Because women go back alone, their hearts must be very worried, eager for someone to accompany, and more hope to get a strong dependence.
At this time, the man saw the opportunity and took the initiative to escort her home, believing that it would make her heart particularly warm.
This requires men to be good at grasping women's information, to have an understanding of her basic situation, and not to blindly pursue.
For example, what kind of socializing she usually has, what time is commuting, weekends and holidays, what places she generally goes to, etc., these have all taken the trouble to understand.
When you figure out these situations for a woman, you have more opportunities to send her back alone.
When you have more contact with her, she will gradually become dependent on you, and even when you are single at night, she will take the initiative to let you come and send her, then you will succeed.
In fact, no matter what kind of women, they are particularly afraid of loneliness, and whenever they are alone, they are particularly helpless in their hearts.
Although they pretend to be indifferent on the surface, they have long become very fragile in their hearts.
Therefore, when a man sees a woman alone at night, he must be bold to accompany her, take care of her with his heart, and send her back enthusiastically, which will make women look at you with surprise.
Possibly, in the beginning, she will be wary of you, but you can't give up, be sincere, and don't be intimidated by the high cold she pretends to be.
At this time, that is, the time to test your sincerity, as long as you insist on appearing next to her, without any bad thoughts, but sincerely want to protect her and escort her back, she will definitely feel it.
A man has to master a technique of sending her back not as a suitor, but as a friend or colleague, which can lower her guard.
Wait until she has more trust in you in her heart, and then pursue and confess, that is, it is a matter of time sooner or later.
Third, when she is lost and sad, give her care and companionship
When a woman loses love, she will be sad and lost, and her feelings are the most fragile, and it is also the best time for men to pursue.
At this time, the woman's heart has long been painful and unbearable, and she may not be able to let go, and it is difficult to get out.
Because of this, a man is the one who helps a woman out of the predicament of lost love, and as long as you do it, she will definitely identify you for the rest of her life.
Because, in a woman's heart, the person who really loves deeply is not the person who laughs with her, but the person who is willing to cry with her, the former although loved but will not be unforgettable, the latter will be engraved in the heart for a lifetime.
After men see a woman falling out of love, they must know how to seize the opportunity to take advantage of her emotional vulnerability and take advantage of the void.
Perhaps, she will not accept you so quickly, because she has been hurt and has a certain wariness, but as long as you insist on caring for her, take care of her with your heart, and appear beside her in time to accompany her, sooner or later she will be touched by you.
And, once you accompany the woman out of the predicament of lost love, she will be unforgettable about the process and treat you as a man who is truly trustworthy.
Men who can make women change from laughter to crying are often hurtful to women, but men who make women change from crying to laughing must be deeply loved, and women will identify with this more and more in their hearts.
When she recognizes you from the bottom of her heart, feels very warm with you, has a strong sense of security, and no longer has to worry about gain and loss, she will definitely favor you more.
Therefore, when a man pursues a woman, he needs to understand the various situations of the woman, and when she is most vulnerable and needs the most attention, you must know it in your heart.
Once you see a woman sad and sad, you must be bold and take the initiative to take care of and accompany the woman.
Take more care of her mood, care about her life, accompany her more, let her feel the texture of love, and eventually she will firmly choose you.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Good love is not waiting, but can only be exchanged for action.
Men pursuing women, must take the initiative, be bold, see the timing, decisively shoot, so that they can quickly catch up with women.
To sum up, it is not difficult to seduce women, and it is generally possible to master these three opportunities.
When the night is quiet, give her care in time; when she is single at night, take the initiative to escort her home; when she is sad about her lost love, give her care and companionship.
In short, the pursuit of women, timing is very important, if you want to quickly capture the woman's heart, you must break through her heart defense when she is most emotionally vulnerable.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.