Men who pretend to love you often have three details that can't be hidden and can be known at a glance

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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.

Balzac said: "In fact, pretend love is more perfect than real love, which is why many women are deceived." ”

Indeed, if a man doesn't really love you, he will disguise himself as perfect, giving you the illusion that once gullible, he is easily hurt.

In fact, when a woman thinks about it in reverse, it is very good to judge whether a man is true love, after all, no matter how good love is, it is impossible to be so perfect.

If a man always presents you with perfect love, deliberately creating romance and sweetness, this should be vigilant.

The man who truly loves you, the love he gives you, can't help but exude, and there can be no deliberate disguise.

The romance that happens naturally is really romantic, pure and beautiful, and can make you feel the taste of happiness.

Instead, the man who pretends to love you, what he gives you is deliberately created, will not last long, there is no feeling of love, it is difficult to perceive happiness.

As long as the woman observes carefully, you will find that the man who pretends to love you is too deliberate in many details and has no sincerity, which is not love.

So, women have to learn the way to judge whether a man is truly in love: look at three details.

First, on the surface, he cares about you, but he is never willing to spend time with you

Someone said: "Ten thousand love words are not worth a warm companionship." ”

Indeed, if a man only superficially cares about you, loves you, likes to say a lot of sweet words to you, but never takes the time to accompany you, it means that it is false love.

No matter how many messages they send you, how many phone calls, and how many words they say "I love you", as long as he is reluctant to spend time on you, it is basically not true love.

The man who truly loves you, the care he gives you, never stays on the surface, but will come to you as soon as he has time and hope to be with you.

If a man says he loves you but never shows up when you need it, he's not sincere about his love for you.

Whether a man is sincere or false to you can be seen from whether he is willing to spend time for you.

The man who loves you, even if he is busy, will find time to accompany you; the man who does not love you, even if he is bored, may not come to accompany you, this is the difference.

Love is not a casual romance, but a care and warmth given to you in action.

A man is only willing to spend time and energy on you, willing to withdraw to accompany you, give you warmth, let you have a sense of security, this is what true love looks like.

Otherwise, no matter how much money and materials he gives you, no matter how beautiful his love words are, they are all castles in the air and cannot withstand the test.

Men who pretend to love you will not give their hearts, and after getting you, they will not pay and will not be responsible for you.

Only men who truly love you are willing to take on future happiness for you and make you feel at ease.

Therefore, if a man says he loves you, but he is in the form, he is not willing to take the time to care for and accompany you, making you very insecure, then it is not true love.

Second, when you are warm to you when you get along, turn your back and cold you

If a man is very enthusiastic with you, but turns his back and is cold and alienated from you, it means that he has reservations about you and is pretending to love you.

In front of you, he may pretend to be very enthusiastic, give you care, take care of you, and will also buy you gifts to make you mistakenly think that you have found true love.

However, once this kind of man chases you in the hand, he will not cherish it and no longer want to spend costs on you.

Their common behavior is that in front of you, they will talk to you about love, and once they turn their backs, they will be cold to you.

He rarely takes the initiative to message you, nor does he take the initiative to care about you, even if you take the initiative to find him, you will not get too much response, even if there is a response, it may be very perfunctory.

The details can't be deceived, women find that men do this to you, basically can let go, not worth consuming themselves.

Miss Tian, a friend, is a very beautiful girl, who did not see the true heart of her boyfriend at the beginning, thought that she had found true love, and finally found that her boyfriend was just coveting her beauty.

When the boyfriend gets along with her, he acts enthusiastically, takes good care of her, and is willing to pay for her.

Taking her out to dinner, buying expensive gifts, and creating romantic surprises in front of her gradually made Miss Tian put aside her worries and eventually live together.

However, after really being together, the boyfriend changed, ostensibly caring about her, but turning his back and ignoring her.

Many times, Miss Tian had something to find a boyfriend, he did not pay attention, the information did not return, the phone did not answer, occasionally answered, but also used the excuse of busy work to prevaricate her.

In the end, Miss Tian understood that the boyfriend did not really love her, everything was pretended, just to get her.

So, a man who is only superficially enthusiastic about you and turns his back to alienate you is not true love.

The man who truly loves you will silently guard you, become your dependence, and will put you in his heart at any time.

Third, it seems that the feelings are single-minded in front of you, but behind it is ambiguous with the opposite sex

If a man acts loyal and single-minded in front of you, looks like the whole world loves you alone, but turns his head and is ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex, it is not true love.

Such a man, while interacting with you, may also be in contact with other members of the opposite sex, and the feelings are very complicated and cheap.

On the surface, they seem to be very affectionate, as if they will always love you alone, but as long as they are separated from you, they will frown with other people of the opposite sex.

That is to say, all the affection of this kind of man in front of you is pretended, and the purpose is to lower your defenses so that it can quickly catch up with you.

In the process of interacting with men, once a woman finds that he has frequent contacts with other members of the opposite sex, likes to eyebrow and is ambiguous, she must stop the loss in time.

This kind of man is not true love, and if he continues to consume himself, he will only be hurt even more.

Men who really love you will be loyal and single-minded to their feelings, and will not associate with other people of the opposite sex at all.

They understand the boundaries of interaction between the opposite sex, and they will pay special attention to your feelings, and will never let you worry.

Such a man will put you in the most important position, even if he meets a better girl than you, he will not change his mind, identify you, and will be responsible for you for a lifetime.

On the contrary, men who pretend to love you are often inconsistent in appearance and have deep affection for you in front of you, but behind your back, they especially like to flirt with the opposite sex.

Any feeling, once there is a flaw, the relationship must not go long, women encounter this kind of inconsistent appearance of the heart of the man, must stay away.

In short, when a man interacts with you, if he has too much contact with other people of the opposite sex behind his back, the distance is too close, and he likes to look at others, this is not true love, and there is no need to entangle.

Ye Feifei yff emotional message:

In the end, whether men are genuine or fake love can be seen through these details, as long as women are a little more careful, they can find their abnormality.

To sum up, men who pretend to love you often have three details that can't be hidden and will be known at a glance.

On the surface, he cares about you, but never spends time with you; when they are warm to you when they get along, they turn their backs to you; they seem to be emotionally single-minded in front of you, but behind them they are ambiguous with the opposite sex.

If a woman encounters such a man, she should not consume it, and must stop the loss in time.

If you believe their love words and are blinded by the pretend love, you will eventually suffer from loss, hurt, and not worth it.

Therefore, stay away from unworthy men and meet the real right people in order to harvest the love you want and have sweet happiness.

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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.