There is a line in the TV series "Mr. Love":
"The word love is by no means illusory or spiritual, but objective, material, and the result of a series of chemical reactions."
Indeed, no matter how beautiful the love words are, no matter how touching the vows are, it is better to do a practical thing for you.
After the age of listening to love, don't be naïve enough to think that sweet words, the sea oath mountain alliance represents love.
After all, he says he loves you, you won't necessarily believe it, but he won't say he doesn't love you.
At any time, I hope you can soberly understand that feelings are only true feelings when they are implemented into real actions.
A man who truly loves you will definitely not be limited to showing love in words, but will take the initiative to give you the following three things.
Give companionship
Companionship is the longest confession of affection.
The best love is not his good morning and good night every day, nor is it holding the phone and saying a few touching words across the screen.
Instead, when you're tired, I'll help you beat your shoulders; when you're sick, I'll guard and take care of you; and I'll be by your side when you need it!
In the TV series "Happiness within Reach", the love between Zhou Fang and Song Rin was bumped by many people.
Of course, it is not because of the talent and female appearance of the two people, but the full sincerity between the two people.
There is such a plot in the play, Song Rin travels abroad to talk about a very important project, and it can even be said that this project is related to the prospects of his own company.
But at this time, Zhou Fang was sick.
When he learned the news of Zhou Fang's illness, what did Song Rin do?
He pushed aside the very important meeting, bought the nearest ticket, and arrived in front of Zhou Fang on the same day, and then carefully took care of Zhou Fang.
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"We're all lonely until we meet someone else and let us know that life can be less lonely."
In this fast-paced era, the person who loves you, maybe he will also be busy and will have too many things to do.
But in your most critical moments, he will definitely be able to appear beside you.
Because in his heart, you are much more important than other things, he can throw everything away, but he does not want you to be helpless and sad.
Give the substance
Tu Lei said:
"Money is not the only test of true love, but it can measure the depth of affection between each other."
In life, many people may not be willing to associate material money with feelings.
After all, feelings are sacred in our hearts, and we will feel that talking about money is too worldly, which is a blasphemy or even an insult to pure feelings.
However, in the world, there is really nothing in the world that can exist apart from matter, and no matter how pure feelings are, they cannot avoid material factors.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
A young man, special stinginess!
How stingy can he be?
With people, no one has ever been able to take advantage of him, and even a few dollars will be clear when eating with friends...
To sum up in one sentence, it is difficult for him to lose money.
But such a person who cut the door was surprisingly generous to a girl next to him.
He pays for meals, he pays for movies, and whenever there is a festival, it is also a variety of expensive gifts that never hurt.
At the bottom of the story, there is such a high-praise comment:
"It's definitely heartfelt, that's right!"
Perhaps, money is really not the whole of love, but money can really see a man's sincerity.
Love, from the wind and snow moon to the chai rice oil and salt, indispensable to the romance under the moon before the flower, not to mention the number in the bank account.
If a man can spend money on you without stinginess, then although he spends money, he carries his full heart.
Give single-mindedness
The writer Schiller once said:
"True love is single-minded, and the realm of love is very narrow, so small that it can only accommodate the survival of two people."
Maybe before a man falls into a deep affection, he will be ambiguous, even twilight.
But when he truly loves a person to the depths, then his whole heart will be occupied by him, and he will no longer be able to accommodate another person.
Friend Ashin, before that, can be said to be a big turnip.
Being in love, having a girlfriend, being very playful, sometimes settling on a relationship with a girl today and falling in love with someone tomorrow.
In many people's minds, even he himself feels that he is such a person who is not specific about feelings.
It wasn't until later that when he met a girl, it changed completely, and he began to restrain himself, automatically keeping a distance from the other opposite sexes that appeared around him.
I once teased him:
"How? When did you become so clean? ”
And not only was he not angry, but he said with a happy face:
"No way, I'm stuck, I'm not interested in anyone but her!"
Maybe that's the truest way to fall in love with someone:
"Before I met you, I never thought about getting married, and after meeting you, I never thought about getting married."
When a man is able to be single-minded with you, even if there are many temptations around him, he is not moved, then all of this is only because he loves you deeply.
It is precisely because of deep love that everywhere you look, it is you.
Zhang Ailing said:
"To do things, always find time and opportunities, don't do things, always find excuses." No matter how much a person says he loves you, if he doesn't show it with actions, then no amount of love is a lie. ”
Men who truly love you will definitely show their love with actions.
In the relationship, if a man can take the initiative to give you the above three things, then it means that he has moved his heart to you, met, and cherished.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.