The loss of love is painful, as if it is a magic injury in the game, it seems that there are no scars on the surface of the body, but it makes people feel painful, do not know where tomorrow is, do not know what the future will be, life has become dark, only endless tears. But no matter how painful, and the sweetness of love, the loss of love will always pass, it is just time, one day, suddenly look back, you will find that those countless moments that make you collapse, you have survived, a person, in fact, can also be very good. In fact, what makes many people collapse when they lose love is not only the departure of the other party, but more importantly, the lack of love without warning, obviously one second they are still fantasizing about the future of the two, and the next second they are told that this future is broken. It is this suddenness that will catch everyone off guard, and the disappointment and pain in their hearts will be infinitely magnified, beyond the scope of emotional endurance, collapsing and crying, so as to alleviate their current level of pain. When all the time has passed, look back and you will find that in fact, in the relationship between the sexes, the fate is over, there will be these signs.
The message has not been read back
Men and women in the hot love period always can't help but live broadcast the details of their lives to each other. For example, what time to get up; what kind of bread was eaten for breakfast; how many cute kittens were met on the way to work; what kind of takeaway was planned to be ordered after work... In the details of these lives, there is a strong desire for one party to share with the other. According to psychologists, the desire to share is the key to continuing a relationship. Therefore, when you find out that yesterday's good night is not exchanged for the next good morning, your every "what are you doing" is not exchanged for his frank confession, on the contrary, he often delays replying to your message for a long time, one or two words at a time, or simply not replying. But when you brush the circle of friends, you often see his dynamics... Then, this person may have begun to say a silent goodbye to you and this relationship. At any time, the desire to share is the most important thing for people to get along with each other. It does not require one person to report everything to another, nor does it require that we should not be absent from every gap in the other person's life. In the complex and rapidly changing era, protecting each other's sincere hearts may be too exaggerated, but most of the fragments in life, we must properly treasure together. Only when you truly love someone will you maintain a high level of sensitivity. Amplify his every sentence and every punctuation, feel his emotions in the gaps between the lines, feel his attitude. From the enthusiasm of not saying anything to the confusion of three words, the other party will be very clearly aware. When you feel this signal, it is most likely that your relationship with the other party begins to show red lights.
The circle of friends blocks you
You know, when a woman falls in love with a man, her eyes are full of him, and the big things and small things in life are interesting or unhappy, and they will share them with the people they love the most at the first time. Only in the people you love the most, you are willing to show your truest self, without scruples. If one day, the woman who has loved you deeply, her circle of friends set you invisible, her daily bits and pieces you can no longer see, you click into her photo album, leaving you with only a ruthless straight line, no doubt, she has made you a stranger, her everything will have nothing to do with you, and her love for you will end here.
No longer need each other, there are things I would rather find someone else than talk to him
The "sense of need" in the relationship is very important, it is the bond between each other, and once there is no need, the feeling will break. Men enjoy the needs of girls, you can think of me no matter what you encounter, will put me above the priority level, and I will know everything about you in the first place. The thing a woman craves most is to be held in the palm of a man's hand, he will be there when he needs it, he will do everything I do as his own, only if one party says his needs, the other party accurately gives love can last. And when you encounter things and the first reaction is not to say to him, preferring to find outsiders, your feelings have long been cracked. After seeing such a video, a girl's family was hospitalized, she borrowed all the money around her, but did not borrow from a man, at that moment she became independent, and she also knew that their relationship could not go on anymore.
Emotional message: When you have nothing to say, do not want to meet, and intentionally fade out of the circle of friends, these three signs are enough to explain everything. In fact, the feelings are gone, but it is just to see who proposes to break up first. We often say that people will change, in fact, in feelings, people have not changed, maybe he is simply that kind of person, but the relationship will change. I liked it before, I don't like it now, I used to think about it, and now I think about it. It's all about relationships, it's feelings. No feelings, don't force it, with someone who doesn't love you, it won't be happy, it will only bring you anxiety and pain every day. Stopping the loss in time is good for yourself.