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For many people, love is a compulsory course.
However, some people can operate happily, while others can only encounter misfortune.
It is often said that the love of husband and wife is a friend in the end, and the love of the past disappears, leaving people with a net of heartache.
Especially as a woman, she bears more in the family, and if she loses the ability to love herself, then she can only be "abandoned" by her lover.
Because, what women need is love, but men need to be adored.
There is a saying: "Only when husband and wife get along with each other in a friendly way can we promote harmony between husband and wife." ”
It is true that harmony between husband and wife is a necessary factor for the stability of your love.
Sometimes, a woman's sixth sense is really accurate, and if you feel like men don't love you anymore, it may be true.
Therefore, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, as long as the other party never asks you about this, it means that he does not have you in his heart.
1, never ask your "emotions"
The most basic ability of adults is to manage their emotions.
If you are often out of control in your life, it is easy to hurt the person who loves you the most.
This is the case with many men, always keeping the best temper to others and the worst to themselves.
Women's emotions are just the opposite, always choosing to use tolerance to cover up their sadness.
There is a saying: "If there is any sudden temper, it is just a grievance that has been accumulated for a long time." ”
I strongly agree with that.
A woman's emotions are a sad expression, and if a man never asks you how you feel, then it only means that he doesn't have you in his heart at all.
Just like Jiang Jing's husband in "Our Marriage".
Every time he came home, he would bring Jiang Jing a necklace, but he would never ask her if she liked it or not, as if it were just a routine task.
Jiang Jing told Shen Huixing that she should make her husband the boss so that she could better manage the marriage.
But in fact, the boss will not sympathize with the subordinates.
Just like Jiang Jing's husband, he rarely cares about her emotions.
Therefore, later, Jiang Jing's marriage came to an end.
This is a necessity.
Our emotions reflect a mood. Happy women often have a smile on their faces, and unfortunate women have gloomy faces.
If a man loves you, he will definitely take care of your emotions.
2, never ask your "past"
Someone said: "Looking back on the past, everything is a regret." ”
Deeply believed, memory is a kind of happiness for us.
Because, what has happened proves that we love.
A man who truly loves you will tolerate your past and, at the same time, will understand your past.
Only people who know nothing about you have no love for you.
Fang Hengzhi in "The Sea of Stars", from the first sight of Jane Ai, has developed a good feeling for her.
When he found out that he was in love with Jane Eyre, he rushed to confess to the other party, and Jane Ai was very rejective at first.
However, Fang Hengzhi did not give up on this.
Instead, she tried to understand her past and heal Jane's inner wounds with her love and sincerity, and the two confessed to each other.
Good love is not necessarily possessive, but it must be inclusive.
After all, in this life, a person may only identify one person, and there may be several relationships.
But either way, we should cherish it.
After all, some people have come to cross you, although the injury is also a kind of memory.
So, meet someone you love and you can share your past. Of course, if the other person does not want to know about your past, it can only mean that he does not love you.
It's that simple.
3, never ask your "daily"
Happiness always needs to find the meaning of its existence from the bits and pieces of life.
Sometimes, ordinary life is the most rare.
There is a saying: "Every ordinary everyday life we experience may be a miracle that happens continuously." ”
I deeply agree with this, and the daily bit is happiness.
It's just that we neglect to discover it, and we miss a lot of beauty.
So, when a man doesn't care about your life, we should understand: this man doesn't have you in his heart.
Like many stay-at-home mothers, they pay a lot for their families, but this is taken for granted in the eyes of men.
The wife is busy with housework and cannot improve herself, and the husband will feel that she "does not think of making progress" and "does not seek progress".
But if it weren't for the happiness of a family, who would have sacrificed so much?
For men who ignore your efforts, if they don't have your daily efforts in their eyes, remember to leave him early.
Not all marriages are worth keeping, and only people who truly love you are worth cherishing.
Xiaoyuan's message: Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, as a man, you should have a correct view of love.
If you love, please love deeply, and if you don't love, remember not to remain ambiguous.
After all, a woman's youth is only a few years, and if it is wasted on an unworthy man, it will only outweigh the loss.
In the future, I hope that you and I can cherish the people in front of us, love ourselves first, and then love others!
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