Don't want men to have "two hearts", women should pay more attention to these 4 signs, don't be stupid and don't know

There is a saying: easy to get priceless treasure, rare to have a lover.

In a marriage-love relationship, it is not easy for a woman to harvest an eternal and unchanging true love.

There are many temptations in society, intrigues in the workplace, the economic burden of raising a family, the complexity and utilitarianism of interpersonal communication, all of which may make a man have "two hearts", so don't easily overestimate human nature and feelings.

Generally speaking, men have "two hearts", there will be the following 4 signs, women can not be stupid to be kept in the dark.

Like to compare you to other women

There is a saying: the lover's eyes are out of the West.

Men like you, you are the cutest and most heartwarming;

They value your strengths, and even your shortcomings will make them smile and not calculate.

Once a man has "two hearts", he has an "object" that can be compared with his own woman;

They will silently compare in their hearts, which points of the lover are more fascinating to him, more "competitive", more deep into their hearts;

For example, some very bad men will cheat on other women while their wives are pregnant;

When you return home, you will not say anything, and your heart will also despise and reject your wife who is "not in good shape".

Or when you are accustomed to being a drunken fan of paper and have witnessed all kinds of women with style, you despise the "wife of the chaff" at home, thinking that they are too mediocre and too boring.

Men like to compare their own women with outsiders, which in itself shows that men have a sidekick, because they already have a balance in their minds and begin to weigh the pros and cons.

Frequent missing contact and not going home

Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:

"Find a person you love, that is, find the person who will accompany you to dinner for the rest of your life, how can love be separated from the stomach?" And how to get out of the mouth, stomach and stomach? When the fate is over, we will no longer eat together from now on; it is no longer you who sits at my table. ”

Once a man has two hearts, his heart has long flown to his lover, and he has no heart to think about the original feelings.

They will often not go home on the grounds that they are busy at work and need to talk about customers, let alone accompany women to dinner;

When questioned by women, most men flashed their words and did not dare to say more, for fear of revealing flaws;

Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only" is an example, he cheated on his lover Lin Youyou, got rid of his wife's constraints, enjoyed the passion brought to him by his lover, and often did not go home, regardless of the company's affairs.

If a man has you in his heart, he is reluctant to let you be lonely often, and they will try their best to take care of your emotions and feelings, rather than dodging and shirking.

indifferent

Bacon said:

If you can't get love back, you will get a kind of contempt that is deeply hidden in your heart, which is a law that is eternally true.

In the relationship between men and women, the most feared thing is indifference;

People often say that between couples or couples, they can quarrel and fight, indicating that the relationship may be eased;

Because in the process of emotional expression and feeling expression, two people are dealing with contradictions, making each other understand themselves better, and trying to resolve conflicts;

But if a man starts to be indifferent to women, ignores everything about women, or is perfunctory and lazy to respond, it means that his heart is no longer with you.

Women are natural animals who like to talk, just think, whether it is women happily sharing their happiness with men, or depressed to express their troubles to men,

Men are ignoring it, showing that they don't care, and women's hearts are afraid to be broken, indicating that this relationship has entered a "frozen period".

Hate being cared for and like to get angry

In the "Rules Before Divorce", Wang Mingxuan and Jiang Xinyao are a newlywed couple, while Wang's subordinate Fang Ting has a superior family, outstanding work ability, and beautiful appearance;

Because of Fang Ting's frequent overtures, an ambiguous feeling arose between Wang and Fang;

When wang went home and saw his wife, he was not happy.

His wife cared about his work, told him about the trivialities of life, and wanted to be intimate with him, Wang Du shirked that he was tired, often appeared very impatient, and he was angry with his wife at every turn, and pretended to give himself "boldness" by the reason of his temper. ”

Men don't love you anymore, and what you do is wrong;

Usually your gentleness and thoughtfulness, care and support for him have all become the reason why he is tired of you.

He may say that you are annoying, that you are wordy, in short, very impatient with you, more hate to be cared for by you, they will deliberately create some distance, get rid of your "enthusiasm".

Su Qian said:

The best way to love someone is to run yourself and give the other person a quality lover.

Women, at any time do not forget to be good to themselves, carefully manage their own love affairs and marriages, and do not let the wrong people lose our lives.

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