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In the world of feelings, the real ability to maintain a long-term relationship is not by the flesh, but by each other's two hearts.
If the mind is not together, nothing is useful.
The biggest tragedy in the world is actually that two people love each other, but they can't be together.
It is easy for two people to love each other, it is difficult to keep each other, after all, trivial life will cause various contradictions between you, and then you need to run into each other.
It is said that unhappy marriages are different, while happy marriages are very similar.
Therefore, the feelings that can really go to the end are actually more because of these points.
Encounter contradictions and communicate with each other
Two people together, there will always be all kinds of problems, and problems between each other are the norm.
Even the best relationships will have contradictions, and the most important thing is each other's attitudes toward problems.
When a person encounters a problem, they run away, turn a blind eye, or treat it indifferently, so that they cannot communicate with each other, and naturally they cannot go on.
If you encounter problems, talk calmly, say what you really think in each other's hearts, and try to understand, the natural contradictions will slowly resolve.
Encountering problems is never a problem, what is afraid is never to say, only cold violence.
Those who will communicate in time when encountering problems will often care more about the feelings between you.
In this way, the relationship between each other can be better maintained.
Life is trivial and needs to be taken for the initiative
Two people together, it is originally a process of mutual need, if the other party is with you, do not know how to pay, naturally such a person does not love you.
The person who truly loves you will take the initiative to share and will not leave you alone.
Love is to be acted upon, if you naturally enjoy a person's efforts, naturally the other party will not get a response in the long run and will slowly put away their own hearts.
Feelings are never a matter of one person, it requires the management and payment of both parties, and each other is willing to work hard for each other, so that love is meaningful.
Many times, there is no need to compare who does more and who does less, and the person who loves you will naturally take the initiative.
A long-term relationship requires the other party to know how to hurt you, so that your efforts are meaningful.
Disagreements, take the initiative to back down
The best way to love someone is actually to be tolerant and compromise.
When you really want to go down with this person, your heart will definitely make concessions, and you will not look at the other party's discomfort and grievances.
Two people together, originally have their own ideas, there is no natural fit of two people, only know how to tolerate each other.
Those who will encounter problems, take the initiative to let you, and do not bother with you are often the people who really care about you.
In this world, there are no feelings that do not quarrel, only couples who know how to advance and retreat.
Love and marriage have all kinds of problems, but the person who loves you will know how to give in, and will go out after a fight and go home with your favorite food.
Good feelings, never so many wins and losses, some just understanding and tolerance.
When arguing, it is not shameful to bow your head, because the more people who know how to tolerate, the more they love you.
summary:
The feelings of adults are not only love, but also heartache, tolerance, and accommodation.
Feelings need to be run together, not to run away when they encounter problems, but to give up.
In this life, it is not easy to meet a person you like, and you must learn to cherish it.
When there is a contradiction, first bow your head, learn to share, and treat each other sincerely, in fact, there is nothing that cannot be passed.