Text/Moran
It is said that if a person wants to live a good life, he must give up some things.
In this world, there is no perfect life, there is no perfect life, only by learning to let go of yourself, can you better live this life.
When people reach middle age, they should understand that some things cannot be satisfactory, and the best way is to learn to look down.
Instead of pursuing those illusory things, it is better to cherish what you have now. Therefore, only by understanding these three points can we live this life well.
The greater your expectations, the greater the disappointment
If a person pursues perfection too much, in fact, the more likely it is to be disappointed. The more you care about something, the more it will torment you.
There's nothing wrong with pursuing beautiful things, but the truth isn't that everything is what you want.
When you expect too much from something or a person, the easier it is to be disappointed.
That kind of excessive expectation will impose your desire on others, cause pressure on each other, and the feelings between each other will also be affected.
On the contrary, maintain a normal mind, not overly expectant, the easier it is to be moved.
When you no longer expect results, you can live a better life, live every day, and every day will be very happy.
In fact, the reason why many people do not live this life well is because of desire, want too much, get too little, and thus form a gap. On the contrary, not expecting too much will surprise you.
Excessive attachment may lead to nothing
People's pursuit of beautiful things is the norm, but excessive attachment is actually unable to live with themselves.
You know, when you cling to something, you're stuck, and you can't do it well.
People must learn to balance their mentality, know how to release pressure on themselves in everything, and weigh their own ability to do things, so as not to disappoint people.
If your abilities and your ambitions are not matched, it is useless to have more desires.
A person still has to consider problems in combination with his own ability and cling to certain things.
People who pursue perfection too much will put themselves into a stalemate and create pressure on themselves.
Therefore, people who can really live well have always maintained a casual attitude, will not blindly pursue results and perfection, but live this life in a comfortable way.
Only by maintaining a normal mind can we reap good things
In this world, it is more of a bland life.
Since this is the case, we should keep a normal mind to face life, not be influenced by others, and come at our own pace in order to harvest beauty.
If you say that everything pursues results and requires perfection, you naturally can't feel ordinary happiness.
After all, people are flawed, people will have regrets, this is the norm.
Since this is the case, people should see this truth more clearly in middle age, maintain a stable mentality, and face life, then everything will develop in the direction you want.
No one is born beautiful, addicted to obsession, will only lose themselves and destroy themselves.
Therefore, people must learn to accept their own ordinary, give up the pursuit of perfection, in order to live easily.
summary:
In this life, people actually want to open up, and there is nothing to look down on.
Don't live in the eyes of others, live in your own world, keep a normal mind to face life, naturally everything will be fine.
Only by letting go of the so-called obsession and getting rid of the mental intrigument can people live this life well.