Text/Moran
In this world, not everyone is worthy of your trust and sincerity.
What people are most afraid of is the deception after trust, the perfunctory after the sincerity, and do not easily deliver the true heart.
In this life, it is easy to meet a person, but it is rare to really give true to you.
No matter when, we must learn to distinguish between the people around you, some people, can rely on, but do not really treat, always keep guard.
In the adult world, human nature is very complex, and many times, you simply can't see the other person as it really is.
Therefore, in the process of communication, we must learn to distinguish, and we must remain sober and rational for these people, and do not treat them sincerely.
People who are obedient to you in every way
In fact, people have tempers and personalities of their own.
When a person obeys you in every way, what you say is what you say; whatever you ask, you say yes, and never resist, it is very dangerous.
Not all obedient people are worth relying on and giving sincerity.
Some people can pretend, maybe before this, he has to aggrieved himself and obey your arrangement, but as long as he has enough confidence, it may be a different look.
Don't think that a person is gentle and obedient to you, that is, sincerely, people should never expose the most true side, always have reservations.
You know, the person who really respects you and cares about you will give his own advice and opinion.
Those who are completely uncontroversial and all obedient, in fact, he is not so sincere, probably because he does not care, does not care, what you say is what you are, and is not willing to think about it.
It may be that he is accumulating strength and will erupt one day in the future.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with people, do not be deceived by superficial behavior, and do not completely surrender to the heart.
No matter how obedient a person is to you, you must learn to have reservations and leave room for everything.
People who don't give a about you
Some people, who may be good to you on the surface, seem to have paid a lot to you, but those are the most basic and can be easily done.
Don't feel that a person, who cares about you a few words, says a few nice words, is sincere.
To be truly good to you, more from the heart, will be sincere to you, will respect, understand your needs, and think from your point of view.
Those who only use other things perfunctory, never let you see him as he really is, such people are hypocritical.
Many times, as long as you feel it with your heart, you will understand that you may be with a person, it seems to be very familiar, in fact, you do not know what kind of person he is, his life, circle, you have not participated in it.
You don't know what he's been busy with all day, he just simply talks to you about the day, and you think that's all.
A person must not be deceived by superficial things, and to see a person must look deep inside.
When he needs to find you, when he does not want to stay away from you, never confessed to you, such a person must learn to distinguish.
You can rely on him and ask for help, but don't get caught up in it completely, or be reserved.
summary:
In this life, we will meet many people, but not everyone is worthy of your sincerity.
Some people, no matter how good the surface is, do not completely trust, but learn to grasp.
Only when you truly recognize a person's heart is it worth treating sincerely. For some people, you can trust, but don't rely on it.