He doesn't like to attend class reunions and doesn't like to deal with passers-by, so he is often one of these types of people

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From childhood to adulthood, people around us spread such a thought - multiple friends and multiple roads.

In the eyes of many people, there are more friends, more roads for future development, and fewer friends, then this person is absolutely unsociable, and there can be too much room for development.

Is this kind of argument normal? Is it the absolute truth?

I think that everything in this world is not absolute. There are too few true friends in this world, too many hypocritical passers-by, and others can't even treat you sincerely, so how can they help you develop?

For example, for our classmates, how do we feel about them who have been separated for many years?

When we are young, we always feel that we have to have a good relationship with our classmates, and we may get their help in the future. But in fact, if you don't have a good relationship, it won't be a big problem, because you and I will have to go our separate ways after all.

For the old classmates who have not been seen for many years, some people choose to be enthusiastic, while some people choose to be silent, and some people choose to turn a blind eye. The former, in the minority. The latter, on the other hand, actually accounted for the majority.

Enthusiasm seems to be easy to understand, but why do most people choose to turn a blind eye to their old classmates?

You know, people who don't like to attend classmates' gatherings and don't like to deal with passers-by are often these types of people.

02

Most people who don't like to attend class reunions hate to join in the fun.

Human nature is the most contradictory thing in this world. There is a characteristic of laziness in it, and there is also the impulse to watch the hilarity, which is easy to make people have difficulty in choosing.

Before participating in the class reunion, some people think that it is better to get together, anyway, the classmates have not seen each other for many years, why not go to see each other?

And some people feel that they have become strangers anyway, seeing or not seeing, what is the so-called? Or not to forget, rare holidays, read books at home, brush mobile phones are more happy.

Modern people, more and more do not like to join in the fun, but prefer a cold personal life. I think it has something to do with the contemporary way of life.

The contemporary mode of life is too impatient, the pace is too fast, and people are under great pressure. At this time, there are definitely people who want to live a "peaceful" life and do not want to cause too much trouble.

Dealing with old classmates is too much trouble. That being the case, it's better to stay out of the way.

03

People who don't like to attend class reunions mostly like to be alone.

There is a saying that low-quality sociability is not as good as high-quality solitude.

Being in sociable with others is not necessarily a good thing. And being alone is not necessarily a bad thing. What people pay attention to is never whether they are fit or not, but whether such a life is suitable for themselves.

Some people are born to like to socialize, they love to toss, then they go to different parties, make different people, is often their best choice.

And some people are born not to like social, more introverted personality, but also like quiet, then they choose to be a solitary person, do not participate in the class reunion, is not also their best choice?

Modern people, in fact, are most easily bound by some "paradoxical" concepts, either thinking that being gregarious must be good, or feeling that being gregarious must be bad. In fact, there is no need to be so extreme.

What suits you is the best. And if it doesn't meet our own, then we don't have to force ourselves to do it.

But it should be said that people who are alone are not necessarily worse off than people who are social. You know, idly watching the flowers blossom and fall before the court is also a quiet mode of life.

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Most people who do not like to attend class reunions have a "disgusting" mentality.

I have seen such a person, who is particularly cheerful and easy to get along with, but they just hate class reunions, and even if others invite him, he will not attend.

People like this either have a bad campus experience or are not interested in these strange classmates, and have an extreme "disgust" mentality.

Lao Zhang, who is a peer, is a social master in the workplace, but he just does not participate in classmate gatherings. Because he knew that in the past student life, these people had a bad attitude towards themselves and bullied themselves, so he has always hated them to this day.

Friends around him have advised him, isn't it that he has bullied you before, now that more than twenty years have passed, why can't he put it down?

Lao Zhang said this: "Some pains are always engraved in the heart and cannot be erased." ”

The reason why a person does not like to participate in class reunions is not because he does not fit in, but because his heart can no longer accept this group of people.

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Most people who don't like to attend class reunions hate to provoke right and wrong.

There is a saying that "right and wrong are only for the sake of opening more, and all troubles are due to strong heads." ”

Some of the right and wrong, the reason why they are endless, is because we open our mouths too many times, thus breeding contradictions. Some troubles shouldn't have happened, but because we like to be strong, then it appears.

People in the jianghu, as long as there is contact between people, there is a certain connection, then they will absolutely have contradictions. This is an inevitable clash of human nature.

Since we all know this result, why should we "beg for ourselves"?

Not to participate in the class reunion is to keep the good memories of the past when I was young, and I don't want to be contaminated with any contradictions and conflicts.

What's more, today's work pressure is so heavy, life problems are so many, then we do not need to take the initiative to create more trouble for ourselves.

Wen/Shushan has deer