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In the face of life disasters and major decisions, women are often more rational than men. They are equally grieving, but they are able not to let their feelings blind their minds. This may be because men's reason is logic, heterogeneous from feelings, and easy to collapse under the impact of feelings; A woman's intellect is intuitive and homogeneous with feelings, so it is able to remain intact in the turbulence of feelings.
It may be said that men stand taller and have a wider field of vision, so they are prone to look ahead, regret the past, and worry about the future. However, women's state is healthier, and they are closer to the natural way of life. When men mourn the death of their loved ones, women mourn the corpse loudly, and then sharply bathe and change the corpse, sending their loved ones on the road to heaven.
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For women, there are two common prejudices. Men's rights see only "women" and not "people" in "women", and regard women only as sexual carriers, not as independent personalities. Some radical feminists only see "people" in "women" and do not see "women", only emphasizing the existence of women as human beings, and obliterating their gender existence and gender value. The latter is actually a variant of patriarchy, an extreme form of female inferiority under patriarchal rule. Of course, a real woman is both a "person" and a "woman", and it is the unity of human existence and gender existence. Just as a sound man seeks in a woman both the same kind and the opposite sex, a sound woman would be no less insulted if he saw her only as a genderless, abstract person as he did as an instrument of desire and fertility.
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Women are inherently more humane than men with certain primitive qualities, such as emotion, intuition, and gregariousness, which are less polluted because of their relative isolation from the social production process and political struggles. Therefore, in the "woman", it is precisely not an abstract "person", but a "woman" who exists as a gender, which preserves and embodies the true nature of human beings more. The same emphasis on the "woman" in "women", patriarchal prejudice is to show that women are not people, but modern wisdom is to enlighten women are more people.
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I have nothing but deep gratitude for women. All grievances between men and women will disappear, but the grace that women give to life and the world will endure forever. I believe that not only me, but all men who know how to settle the ledger will be in such a mood.
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I have found that beautiful girls tend to have a healthier development by nature. Perhaps this is because they are likable and full of loving nourishment from an early age, and their mistakes are easily forgiven, so they have less concern for their actions and can grow freely. Like a plant, they get more sunlight and more open space, so they don't get sick.
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If a young woman were to ask me what youth can't miss and was asked to name ten things I must do, I would list something like this:
1. Be in love at least once and at most twice. Not once, but it inevitably failed to live up to youth. But true love is not easy, more than twice, there is a suspicion of fake.
Second, make a number of good friends, which can be close friends in the middle of the house or confidants of the opposite sex.
Third, learn to cook, can cook several good dishes. What matters is not the craft itself, but the taste of everyday life.
Fourth, once a year for a small trip, every few years for a big trip, to increase knowledge and broaden the mind.
Fifth, exercise, it is best to have a sports that you like and can persevere.
6. Strive for a good education, be proficient in a professional knowledge or skill, and master the housekeeping skills sufficient to sustain survival. Try to choose a career according to your interests. If you can't, treat your job with professionalism and develop your interests in your spare time.
Seventh, develop a high-grade reading hobby, read a batch of good books, and find your own book confidant.
8. Like at least one art, music, dance, painting, you can create and participate in yourself, or you can just appreciate it.
9. Develop the habit of keeping a diary. It can help you learn to enjoy solitude and talk to yourself in solitude.
10. Experience a major setback without being defeated. As long as you are not defeated, you will become many times stronger than in the past. If you don't go through this, you won't know how powerful you really are.
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Goethe said: "Eternal women, guide us away." ”
Where to go? Towards a more tangible life, a more humane society.
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The powerful brain makes us accustomed to rational thinking and controlling emotions, but excessive suppression makes many people start to be anxious and depressed. The better, the more anxious.
Why, the body becomes a machine that only works? Life becomes like a pool of stagnant water? Why are we no longer full of passion and vitality like the ancients?
Perhaps we should go back to the beginning of life and look at the essence of dance - free expression, free dancing body in the field, and regaining that very simple, special essence of vitality.
A flower does not shy, a tree does not have the puzzle of dancing, we have forgotten ourselves for a long time ...
Then follow the modern dance master Gao Yanjinzi to dance, let go of the standard, let go of the stereotype, let go of all the constraints imposed on us, and express freely.
Rejuvenate and energize your body, this is what you want, and this is what modern dance is after.
Only by letting go of the brain can life fully open up. - Tsuko Gao
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Introduction: "Age is a Rumor" is a new collection of essays by writer Zhou Guoping after seven years of absence. The author has realized his life and shared his thoughts and interpretations with readers from different dimensions of spirit, self, life, culture, literature, reading, education and philosophy. More than 70 years of life wisdom has personally conveyed: age is a rumor, just as it does not exist, people live in the present, the current state is young, is young. No matter what age people are, there is only one thing they should do and can do, and that is to live every day.
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