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Someone once said, don't overestimate human nature, and don't underestimate people's hearts.
Don't think that human nature is so bright and bright, and don't think that the human heart is warm and moving, in the vast majority of cases, the human heart and human nature are beyond our expectations.
In the workplace, the smiling man, you never know how treacherous he is. Hiding a knife in laughter and hurting people behind their backs may be the best tricks of these people.
In the circle of friends, don't feel that others give you a thumbs up, say a few words to flatter you, it shows that the other party has good intentions. Perhaps, the slightest touch of others on you is just to make you paralyzed.
In the interpersonal relationship field, don't feel that others call you "brother" or "sister" a few times, which means that others respect you. The scene on the surface is far more hypocritical than we think.
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In this world, the most terrible thing is not a flood beast, nor is it a natural disaster, but precisely "man". Sometimes people are more terrible than ghosts, because "the human heart is hell", and who knows what the other person is thinking?
Don't think that only villains in this world are the most treacherous. You know, people's hearts are unpredictable, and these kinds of people are "better" than villains and have to be prevented.
02
The first category of people: hypocrites.
There is a particularly ironic saying that those who are full of benevolence and morality on the surface always secretly do some male thieves and female prostitutes.
Superficial goodness is just a "coat" that others deliberately disguise to show us, and if we believe it, it would be naïve.
We never know what dirt and black hearts are hidden underneath the good-looking coat. It can be said that wolves in sheep's clothing have always been hiding around us.
In the workplace, some colleagues and bosses often say some specious clichés to the people around them, and anyway, the good words are exhausted, and we are "morally kidnapped".
These people who can casually "morally kidnap" others are the most terrible beings.
The reason why hypocrites are more treacherous than villains is because they are inconsistent. Outward goodness can confuse people. The fierceness of the back can hurt people. This light and dark, one positive and one strange, make people invincible.
In the face of hypocrites, it is better for us to stay away in time, and not to get too close and cause trouble.
03
The second type of person: people with thick faces and dark hearts.
Since the Republic of China, there has been a book that is particularly eye-catching, called "Thick Black Studies".
The so-called "thick black", as the name suggests, is to make people thick and black. The skin of the face is as thick as the bark of the tree, and the heart is as black as coal, which makes people invincible.
Is this "thick-faced and dark-hearted" skill really so easy to refine? It can be said that it is difficult for ordinary people to reach the realm of thick-skinned and dark-hearted, and only those who are cold-blooded and ruthless can reach this level.
Gou Jian is thick and dark, and can be wronged to taste the excrement of fu cha in exchange for fu cha's trust. It is conceivable that the more reclusive this kind of person is, the more terrible it is, more vicious than a poisonous snake.
Liu Bang has a thick and dark face, and can kick his son out of the car when he is in danger, only to escape for his life. Can you imagine how kind a man who doesn't even care about his son's life can be?
No matter how thick the villain's face is, he will not be wronged to do insulting things, and no matter how vicious the villain is, he will not attack his son. This is doomed to a person with a "thick face and a black heart" who will always be better than a villain, and non-villains can be compared.
04
The third category of people: people who draw big cakes.
There is a hot word on the Internet called "Draw a Pie".
What exactly is "drawing a big pie"? In order to be able to control you, some people tell you some goals like a fantasy, so that you feel that the future can be expected. It can be said that the essence of drawing a pie is to fool you.
This is particularly familiar to bosses and bosses in the workplace.
When ordinary people first come to the unit, your boss will say some clichés to you, draw you a "can't eat" pie, let you blindly work for him, anyway, squeeze your value to the extreme.
Of course, a better boss will let you eat a certain "cake", and a boss without a conscience will only make your salary stand still forever, numbing your heart and giving you hope at the same time.
People, like this, step by step fall into the "cake painting trap" of others, and their minds are full of "part-time work" thinking. You know, your efforts, just "busy in vain", will only create value for the boss, not for you.
So, if we have a choice, then we have to try to get rid of the hypocrites who draw big pies.
05
The fourth type of person: relatives who are not cooked and do not eat.
The hypocrites mentioned above, those with thick faces, and those who draw large pies are generally outsiders. Is it true that our relatives are all good people who are extremely kind?
That's impossible. Whether they are relatives or outsiders, they are all human beings. As long as it is a person, there must be a bad mind and their own small calculations. We had to defend.
Why do we say the words "be wary of the pillow people" or "be wary of those around you"?
Because the pillow people and the people around us are very close to us, and they can cause us harm anytime and anywhere. If someone has a heart and calculates a person without a heart, then the latter has no time to react and the opportunity to take precautions.
We must have two attitudes towards our loved ones: First, some secrets must always be kept in our hearts and cannot be told to anyone. Secondly, the more we like to count the relatives of those around us, the more we have to stay away.
Tigers outside, no matter how terrible, we can also dodge. Only the poisonous snakes around them will suddenly attack, making people invincible.
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