Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In this life, there is no one who is not "stressed"! However, people have opened up distance between people because of the degree of "maturity".
The savior of everyone can only be himself. Whoever it is, it can't be trusted!
In the face of people's hearts and human nature, the mountains will be empty, and the water will dry.
No matter how difficult life is, you must grit your teeth and move forward. In this difficult and lonely journey of life, no one will be a lucky exception.
Time is a good thing that teaches people to grow.
Experience is a good teacher, and people get maturity from it.
In this realistic society, we have good expectations, but we must not have too complete expectations. For people and things, if they cannot be redeemed by growth and maturity, the next life path can only be scarred.
Reality tells us that no matter how old a person is, people who can do the three things of "one sink, two pressures, and three can hide" are not simple:
One sink - hold your breath!
People are alive, unhappiness is the norm, and smoothness is a lucky accident! In the face of the reality of three ups and three downs, some people either self-deny or emotionally make the situation that did not have to be so bad worse.
People who have experienced it understand that people are not in the trough period and can never really live thoroughly.
The human heart and human nature will tell you that the coldest people in the world are often the closest people you know best!
Reality will tell you that going all out isn't just about creating opportunities for success, it's about accumulating experience for the rest of your life.
Some people, see through and don't say it thoroughly, are leaving room for themselves!
Some things, don't rush for a while, are accumulating experience for yourself.
People who can't hold their breath are anxious to explain themselves, express themselves, and rush to see the results after paying...
People live a lifetime, and their luck is slowly accumulated by themselves! Too often, not saying bad things to people and not being impatient with things is accumulating good fortune for yourself.
No matter who you meet, no matter what you have experienced, you can hold your breath and meet with the relatively complete one in all the results!
Holding your breath can make people maintain their sanity to the greatest extent, and how can they not get a relatively happy ending in the face of reason?
Second pressure - suppress the temper!
When people are most angry, they can often say evil words that amplify the original negative emotions by tens or hundreds of times!
Do you know? The two consequences of anger are nothing more than punishing oneself for the mistakes of others; manifesting one's own incompetence.
People who are really strong, capable, and capable will be angry when they encounter problems, but they will be within the scope of self-control. He knows that being angry is far less practical than reversing the status quo!
Some unsatisfactory things, bad temper can only make it worse.
Some consume their relationships and become angry can only make themselves enemies on all sides.
Man is not a Buddha, and it is impossible to deal with everything that is not smooth and without waves. But people can reduce their bad temper to the lowest point.
Don't say uncontrollable, think of "as long as you control, you will meet with hidden luck." That way, you're in control!
Some people say that emotions are managed, but in fact, in the weighing of pros and cons, they really feel the unpredictable damage caused by emotional loss of control.
No one is born to be able to suppress their temper. But after more experience, it seems to be smoothed out by the edges and corners, but in fact, it is self-enrichment in the heart.
As a result, there is a "roundabout" wisdom for those people or things that will increase their life obstacles for no reason.
Three can hide - hide things!
When I was a child, I watched a movie in which the female protagonist "preached" the male protagonist's words, and there was a sentence that said: The dog's belly cannot hold two or two sesame oils.
At that time, I didn't understand what I meant, and I always secretly observed the belly of the big yellow dog that I had at home.
As I experienced more and more social experiences and grew older, I understood the true meaning of the words my mother said:
To be a human being, we must keep our mouths shut and hide things. We must not arbitrarily leak everything we "know" to others. In particular, you can't say anything about others and feel free to tell others!
In this lifetime, people can often bring the greatest disaster to themselves, not others, but their own mouth.
Once a subordinate, in fact, the ability to work is still there, but he has no guard against anyone. If anyone says a few "intimate" words to him, he immediately treats people as his brothers.
When talking about a project on a business trip, he and the person in charge of the cooperative project talked about it because they were "very happy with each other", and under the repeated "heart-to-heart" of the other party, they said the company's profit points and raw material procurement channels.
In the end, while the company lost money, he also lost his job because of it. And, since then, the same industry has heard of his "story", and most of them dare not use him.
Whether it is the workplace, life or ordinary interpersonal relationships, we must remember that "more words must be lost" is a profound lesson summed up by countless people with their own personal experience.
No matter how old you are, as long as you can hold your breath, suppress your temper, and control your mouth to hide things, most of them are strong people who can enter the door of success.
No one is born lucky, and all the good fortune in this life needs to be accumulated a little bit in the experience.
Therefore, don't complain or be discouraged at the moment, you must first learn to hone yourself.
Every step of life is not in vain, and every experience is the best teacher on the road of life.
For the rest of your life, may you and I work together so that we can become truly strong and satisfying ourselves!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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