Text/Moran
I believe that many people, at the beginning of a relationship, are determined to go down together.
At that time, everything was beautiful, everything could tolerate each other, and there was a sense of freshness to each other.
But with the passage of time, familiarity with each other, feelings slowly flat, at this time there may be problems between each other.
For some people, the freshness is gone, and he may want to give up and continue to find his freshness.
Then in this regard, we must rationally analyze each other's emotional state, if the other party really does not want to continue, there is no meaning.
In feelings, a person's intuition is very accurate, and you can feel a change in a person's mind.
So, to say that you want to know whether a relationship should continue, it is enough to see these three points.
Whether they are in step with each other
I have always felt that love needs to go in both directions, and one person's efforts cannot support the love of two people.
Love needs to be responsive, it needs to be in agreement with each other, so that we can continue and persevere.
If we say that each other's original intentions have changed, the pace is not consistent, together is to torture each other, and each other's feelings will become more and more distant.
You know, the people in front will only throw away the people behind, and only each other's intentions and determinations can last.
True love is that two people are moving in one direction, and each other is on a track, so that two people will get closer.
Therefore, if the determination is different and the desire is different, there is no need to reluctantly continue, it is not worth it, and it is meaningless.
The determination to be together with each other
True love is never a heartbeat, but a fixed heart.
When you really identify a person, you will not think about other people anymore, but will only want to go on a good walk with each other.
If the other party can't make your heart move, naturally you will have other ideas, and you can't feel at ease with each other.
Such feelings cannot last long, and you may suffer from gain and loss after a long time, and you are afraid of loss.
Probably only by really giving you a sense of security, making you steady, and making you feel loved, so that each other can live better.
The really comfortable feelings have always been sincere with each other, taken seriously, and determined by each other.
Whether each other likes this state or not
It is said that good love is that each other will enjoy such a state, feel comfortable together, and will enjoy this time.
Good love is mutual nourishment, and wrong feelings are mutual consumption.
In a relationship, if you feel laborious and need you to work hard to maintain, to please, to change yourself, then such a relationship is wrong.
Because good feelings are effortless, you can be your true self.
Believe that a good relationship will only make you better and better, not make you doubt yourself.
So, when you feel physically and mentally exhausted, stop and think about whether each other is a good fit and give yourself a chance to choose again.
Summary:
Any feeling, everyone hopes to have a good result, but human nature can not be measured.
You may never know the other person's true thoughts, if the other party has two hearts, the mind is not on you, together is also mutual torture.
Therefore, no matter when, first see whether each other is suitable, and whether there is a sense of continuing, so that they will not consume each other too much.
Only if you choose the right person will you be happy for the rest of your life, and the wrong feelings will only consume the rest of your life.