Text/Moran
In our lifetime, happiness has always been accumulated by ourselves.
Happiness is never obtained from others, and happiness is always obtained through one's own efforts.
In this complex society, everyone desires happiness. But many times, we run counter to happiness, and because of our desires and greed, we have less and less to really get.
In fact, happiness is not elsewhere, it is all around us, it is some small things in daily life.
Sometimes, the simpler the happier, so doing more of these little things will make you happy.
Keep smiling
It is said that smiling for ten years is less, when you always keep smiling and try to control your emotions.
You will find that many things are not so difficult. There is nothing in life that cannot be passed, only people who cannot go through.
When you encounter something difficult and annoying, don't lose your emotions, when you are kidnapped by emotions, you will be trapped.
The more sad you are, the more you have to learn to relax, you may wish to smile at yourself more, and your mood will become happy.
When you keep smiling, it also infects the people around you. A person who loves to laugh, luck will not be too bad.
Therefore, smiling will make you fearless of wind and rain, and will also make you better and better.
Appropriate trade-offs
In this life, people are actually a process of continuous trade-offs.
There are gains and losses in life, don't care too much about the results, and don't blindly calculate. Everything is too serious, and in the end it is yourself who is hurt.
People still have to be forgetful occasionally, don't put everything in your heart, the more calculating you are, the more you can't get along with yourself.
People must not be affected by desires and unworthy things.
Originally, there are only a few things that a person can bear, and there is no need to care about everything. The more you care, the harder it is for people to be happy.
Therefore, forget those unhappy things, and happiness will always accompany you.
Enjoy being alone
In this life, people can eventually accompany themselves to the end, always themselves, and learn to enjoy a person's time.
Sometimes, a person is nothing, and you only become strong when you can be well alone with yourself.
The more you reach a certain age, the more you must learn to narrow your circle and enjoy your own time, you don't have to pretend to be strong, you can be your true self.
When you calm down, you can listen to your inner voice to find your true self, so that you will truly know what you want. Only those who can be alone can live better.
Cultivate hobbies
A person always has to have some hobbies and do something they like.
When you focus on doing your own thing, you will truly feel happy.
Like making a meal, listening to a song, reading a book, sipping a cup of tea, or going out on a trip and seeing the world.
When you're immersed in something you love, everything is beautiful.
Life always has to return to the self, only when you really do yourself, the heart will be full of freedom.
So, don't be afraid to try, do more, and a sense of accomplishment and happiness will also arise.
summary:
In this life, happiness is not only wealth, status, but also self. When you can be yourself well and enjoy the time of one person, or the time of a group of people, you are truly happy.
Whether a person is happy or not is more about what mentality they maintain, so do more of these small things, and you will be happy.