Women are born for love.
In the first half of their lives, they grew up under the protection of family affection.
After reaching the age of romance and love, women will encounter love and marriage. Usually, the second half of their lives often revolves around marriage and family.
So, as a girl, what kind of life will you live for the rest of your life?
It is not an exaggeration to say that the situation of a woman is closely related to the marriage partner.
In the words of Mr. Mo Yan: If you meet a man who knows en tu, the girl will become a happy and lucky wife under the protection of the other party.
If you meet the wrong person, the girl will have to face more and more disappointment. Therefore, really smart women often do not use the attitude of complacency to choose a relationship at will.
They will maintain a rational attitude, combine romance and reality, and choose the person who is really suitable for them. Only in this way can women take many less emotional detours in the long rest of their lives.
After marriage, is the woman doing well?
Regarding marriage, someone said this:
Marriage is a woman's second chance to reincarnate.
Regardless of the original family, if a woman chooses the right person to marry, she can find the happiness she wants.
There is no denying the impact of emotional life on women.
But the state of emotional life is often the result of two people getting along, not one person can influence. Maybe at first, men genuinely loved girls, but many men are fickle.
In the world of love, accompanied by games and tests, the relationship between two people will also be variable.
For a girl, whether a man is reliable or not, whether he is worth trusting, sometimes need to be with each other to know. If you want to know how women live after marriage, married life?
We need to find the true psychology of girls from their subconscious.
It turns out that these three "subconscious" can't deceive people, and the state of life of women will be reflected in it.
First: the way of speaking.
Life can change a person.
When single, girls are the treasures in the eyes of their parents.
In the original family, they enjoy the warmth brought by family affection and live a very happy life.
And when you meet love, join hands with the man you love into marriage, the next life, you need two husband and wife to manage and take care of it. How the day goes by is often expressed in words.
Happy women, in the tone of speech, are more satisfied with life.
And those who do not live well often express their dissatisfaction with the situation through words. In fact, it is easy to feel that those who always complain usually accumulate too much disappointment.
Second: the way of consumption.
Everyone has a need for material things.
What will it mean for two people to fall in love?
In addition to romantic love, both parties also need to obtain a certain wealth return in order to meet the needs of life.
After marriage, the state of the woman will be expressed through the subconscious. For example, if when consuming, girls always shrink their hands and feet, it seems too restrained.
From this we can feel that her subconscious is unhappy.
When buying things, women who do not have to worry about anything, can easily realize their material needs, and will get more happiness. And such a girl, the situation is also more optimistic.
Third: the way to wear.
A person's behavior is often affected by the environment.
If in married life, couples live a very rich life, then their lifestyle will have more sense of ceremony.
This sense of ceremony is easily reflected in dress.
In married life, whether a woman is sloppy or generous reflects a different state.
If a woman always gives people a sloppy feeling, in fact, what her subconscious wants to express is that her life is too sloppy, there is no leisure or conditions, and she has to live an exquisite life.
And those generous and decent women, they often have enough conditions to carefully decorate their lives, so they will give people a sense of elegance.
Second, as a girl, how to manage marriage?
Who wouldn't want a happy marriage!
However, we must understand the fact that a happy life is not waiting.
From a woman's point of view, if you want to grasp the direction of marriage and grasp the desired state of life, in addition to polishing your eyes and falling in love with a man who really loves you, you also need to know the wisdom of management.
When working with men and starting a married life, how should women dominate their marriage and become a person of fate? We can start from three perspectives.
First: know how to understand and respect.
Love is the result of the interaction between two people.
When you meet the boy you like, the girl will also try to complete love.
But everyone should realize that feelings are not something that one person can grasp, and it is necessary to find a common goal with the beloved, learn to understand and tolerate, and let love pass the test smoothly.
If a man loves you, he will understand and tolerate you.
Similarly, if a girl wants to become the object worth protecting in the minds of men, everyone must also learn to understand each other, and respect each other, and save enough face for men, he will cherish you more.
Second: Raise your personal needs.
Sometimes, men are really busy.
As a result, he may ignore your feelings.
Girls should know that in the emotional world, everyone has needs. In front of the lover, boldly mentioning needs will not hurt each other's feelings, but will help maintain feelings.
Make men understand you more and take time to spend time with you by making demands. In this way, it is easier to conquer the man's heart than crying and crying, and throwing tantrums.
Third: learn to cherish yourself.
Love is inseparable from giving.
Deep love for a man, girls are prone to a spirit of sacrifice.
But blindly paying, not only can not grasp the direction of love, but sometimes let the other party pampered and proud. Therefore, smart girls will adhere to the necessary bottom line in love, learn to respect themselves, and cherish themselves.
In addition to appropriate pay, girls should put their time and energy on themselves.
If you want to become a lucky person, even after marriage, women must adhere to their personal dreams, maintain an independent side, when girls rely on themselves, can grasp the direction of life, why put happiness on others?
When you meet love, join hands with each other into marriage.
Next, everyone will still face unexpected tests.
Whether two people can go on happily is still unknown. If you want to know, how does a woman live in marriage? From her subconscious, you might as well find the answer you want.
As a woman, how do you guard your marriage? In fact, there is a method.
In married life, be a woman who knows how to understand and respect, appropriately put forward personal needs, and learn to cherish yourself. When girls do this, relying on their own strength, they can grasp the desired state of life.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.