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People get old in a flash...
As the saying goes, it's rare to be confused. When people are old, some are really confused, some are false and confused, and when they are true, they are both true and false, and they are true and false when they are false, and they are not clear.
I have lived most of my life and met many people, and my heart has long been cold, only in my own small home can I feel at ease.
People are old, what is the use of shrewdness! The point of confusion is also very good, everything does not want too much, the heart can be sober, but on the surface must learn to "pretend to be stupid", only hope that the years are quiet, there is no dispute with the world, a flower and a grass, leisurely.
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The lover nags and pretends not to hear!
Two people have lived a lifetime, but also a lifetime of fate, when they were young, quarreling and quarreling, for the sake of life, when people are old, they can't move, their hearts are exhausted, and then they quarrel, and there is no meaning.
Husband and wife should be the people who know each other best in the world, it is not easy to live a lifetime, there is no best partner, only a husband and wife who are run-in, right and wrong, all are in the past.
Love for a lifetime, has long become family affection, ups and downs for decades, in the blink of an eye, suddenly looking back, we are all old, we have been baptized by the years, the gentle romance of the past is no longer there, but there is still thoughtfulness left, and finally realized the hand of the son and the son with the old, and what can not go through the heart knot.
Saying goes
The sun rises in the east and the rains in the west, and the road is clear but sunny!
Lovers nagging, nagging is the fireworks of the world, nagging is the half-life marriage, nagging is the parents are short, nagging is a lifetime of grievances.
When people get old, they can't help but sigh, this life is really difficult! At least you, who spent all the time with me, vaguely remember that when we were young, we stopped in the lights...
Nagging on the nagging, the left ear into the right ear out, there are thousands of ways to express love, one of which is resentment on the mouth, but the heart is worried, love and hate for a lifetime, in exchange for a wife, there is no regret!
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Children's affairs, pretend not to be in charge!
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren' blessings, and after their children become a family, they should not care much about things that can not be mixed.
If you manage more, your children will have opinions - Parents, I can decide my own affairs!
Don't say anything and don't listen to the old man, the loss is in front of you! Who is not personally experienced, to understand life, everyone has everyone's life, children grow up, but also have their own ideals, let them fly, one day they are homesick, naturally will come back.
Especially the emotional problems of young people, it is best to mix less, when you are for love, not exhausted, when people really have to live one day to understand, naturally will understand how to live.
When people are old, it is better to respect their children than to restrain them, respect their feelings, respect their choices, respect their ideals, and respect their lives.
Some old people have too strong desire to control, all the things of their children must be managed, things must be reversed, sincerely good for their children, silently support them behind their backs, can help a hand, some things can not be managed, some things would rather pretend not to be managed, so that children can really mature!
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Meet relatives and pretend you don't have any money!
Who to become relatives with is the fate of fate, a lifetime of you and me, full of love and hate entanglement.
When people are old, everything is over, no longer mention new hatreds and old hatreds, do not involve right and wrong, see relatives, they are happy, let go of all grievances and entanglements, and finally learn to "be calm".
The weakening of family affection may be an inevitable, I don't know when it began, people's hearts are gradually pulling away, perhaps only because they have their own families, each has its own children, each has its own life...
Some relatives tear their faces because of a little interest, but they quarrel around, but they can't give up the fate of family affection, live to a certain age, have to admit that they will see some relatives very lightly and lightly, not one person has changed, it is we all changed, we are all changed by reality.
Some relatives meet, compete for comparison, no longer talk about family affection, only talk about who is richer, eat much better than when they were young, but eat tastelessly, just like this family affection that has long deteriorated.
Some relatives, all their lives worry about the money in your pocket, you don't give it to them, they feel as if you owe them, just ask when life is at a low point, which relative has ever felt sorry for you!
When people are old, when they meet relatives, they would rather pretend to be poor than be broad, do not let relatives be jealous, do not let relatives "worry", exchange courtesies between each other, can walk around, really feel bored, it is better to choose their own safety!
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When people are old, they must look down on everything, the surface is confused, and the soul must be transparent.
When people are old, in the face of those disturbances, they can see through and do not say thoroughly, and they can see through and do not debunk.
When people are old, they do not disturb others, nor are they disturbed by others, and they live their old age well, clean and leisurely.
When people are old, they should pretend when they should pretend, laugh, the clouds are light and the wind is light, ignore the world, and be a leisurely old immortal!
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