Text/Moran
In this life, people actually want to get rid of the expectations of others and live as they want.
The reason why many people are miserable is more that they care too much, calculate, cling to, can't put it down, can't forget it, and can't afford to lose.
As a result, most people are immersed in this emotion and cannot get out.
It is said that a happy life is the same, and the causes of suffering are different, but most of the suffering actually comes from itself.
Can't put down the past, can't forget the feelings, can't afford to lose the future, too much want, let yourself fall into a painful situation.
Real life is often not as beautiful as imagined, and many things are very cruel.
The root cause of human suffering is, in fact, mostly so. For things that can't be done, forget it.
Being too persistent and calculating will only trap yourself and destroy yourself.
In this life, we will encounter many things, may be misunderstood, will be slandered, and even can not follow their own ideas.
As a result, some will choose to be patient, and some will want to find an opportunity to fight back.
But over time, the inner thorn will always be there, although it may not cause a lot of damage, but it seems to linger. In fact, for that kind of thing that can't be done, don't pay attention to it anymore.
Many things, not clinging to have good results, sometimes choosing to give up may be a good way.
Some things, forget it, don't hurt yourself anymore, learn to let go.
For feelings that have no results, then you can only be relieved and choose to forget.
You know, the twisted melon is not sweet, blindly falling into it, will only hurt yourself.
Feelings of fruitlessness are mutually consuming together, and since they are doomed to have no results, there is no need to hurt each other.
Although it is said that people who have entered the heart are unforgettable, they cannot live a good life if they stay in the past.
Those things that you think you will never forget are actually forgotten by us in the process of remembering.
Don't feel like you can't forget, as long as you don't miss it anymore, time will heal everything.
Time is the best medicine, and it will make the past that cannot be passed.
By that day you will understand that nothing in this world is untenable, it's just that you don't want to.
In our lifetime, we will meet many people, some people are destined to rub shoulders, and some people will accompany you to the end.
You never know how long the person next to you will accompany you, for the person who accompanies you for a while, just let it go.
The fate between people is limited, many times can not be forced, the fate should be dispersed, and it is not interesting to cling to it.
People who are destined to be separated, who have seriously embraced, those who want to leave, just say goodbye.
Many people, who are originally doomed to no results, do not be afraid of sudden loss, since they are destined to lose, it means that each other is not the right person. We must learn to look down and go light in order to go far.
People's life is still very long, there is no need to be angry about the wrong person.
You always have to say goodbye to the wrong person to meet the right person. So, follow your inner thoughts and everything is the best arrangement.
summary:
For some people and things, forget it, let it go, forget it, this is not only a comfort to yourself, but also a relief to yourself.
Life is still long, there will always be someone to extinguish your lamp, there is also someone to illuminate your path, everything you experience, the difficulties are temporary, everything will be fine.