Love is a very mysterious thing, like a shadow, silent, haunting the heart, and floating in the sea of people in the blink of an eye.
In this era, love is a relationship that can be changed at any time, no need to love, we can completely break up or divorce to find someone we love more.
It is said that men are very careful, especially easy to cheat, can not resist the temptation of other young and beautiful little beauties in society, women are not, who like better, better, more suitable for their own people.
Love is such a thing, it has a shelf life, once the shelf life is over, there is no meaning. And this shelf life is determined by the person who does not love first, if the woman does not love you, he will use these "means" to force you to break up, so that the shelf life of the relationship ends.
1) You can't give me what I want
A lot of women will use this as an excuse to break up, and if you really love this man, you don't care if he can give you the life you want, all you want is this person. Only if you don't love him will you feel like the east and the west, dislike him for his inability, and have no ability to give you the life you want.
Women are duplicitous, under the banner of the other party's incompetence to cover for their own change of heart. If a woman tells you that you have no ability and no ability to give her the life she wants, then you must be easy to break up with her, after all, every man has self-respect and wants face, since women have said so, then what face does he have to save?
2) Parents do not agree with us together
In the hearts of most women, it is better to abandon family affection than to get love. Women are a very obsessive animal, and they can give up a lot for a man, as long as she loves the man in her heart.
Sometimes, women tell men that their parents don't approve of the two of them being together as a reason for them to break up. In fact, when a woman does this, she will first leave a filial piety impression on the man, think that she is a good girl, in fact, you can also let the man willingly break up with her, and will not be very stiff.
3, I don't deserve you
This reason is the most absurd, if you know that you are not worthy of each other, why do you want to be with him, why have you been with him for a while and feel that you are not worthy of him to break up, the other party has not yet felt that you are not worthy of him to break up with you, obviously you are taking advantage, why do you want to break up?
This reason is like saying when we break up: I hope you can find a better woman than me, I don't deserve you. But what woman wants her ex to find a much prettier, rich and beautiful incumbent? This is to make excuses for not loving.
4. Cold violence
Some women do not want to feel guilty, do not want to bear the charge of betraying this relationship, so even if they do not love, they will not take the initiative to say break up, nor find any reason to break up with men. They will tell men with their own attitude that I don't love you anymore and that you'd better take the initiative to leave on your own.
She will be unwilling to date men, unwilling to have physical contact with men, men send messages, phone calls do not respond, if her girlfriend is like this, which man can stand it? Therefore, many women will use cold violence to force men to break up with themselves, which is also very effective for men.
Emotional Message:
Love is pure things, since you don't love, why can't you take the initiative to say break up? You should use such a torturous way to make the other party die to you first.
Love is not reluctantly obtained, since you have no feelings for the man, it is better to make it clear to him early, so as not to hurt his heart, or waste his time, isn't it good for two people to get together and disperse?