We are looking forward to a beautiful love, and the beautiful love that everyone thinks is that two people like each other and are loyal to each other.
But there are many people in this world who always eat from the bowl and watch themselves in the pot with their lovers, but still think about the lover outside, and even often contact each other.
In fact, sometimes people often do such things: they think that they are hiding deep enough, in fact, in the eyes of others, you are just covering your ears and stealing bells.
Hide some deep feelings, for a long time, others will find your abnormality.
If a person has a lover in his heart, he will have the following three abnormalities, which cannot be hidden.
01.
Become insincere to your lover
Many people are still more sincere when treating their lovers, as long as the feelings of two people are still there, where two people can say anything between them, and when they do things, they will also seek each other's opinions, and a family is also particularly harmonious.
But once one of them is out there and has someone else, then the two people are not so sincere, and it is not very good for the person who has someone else outside to face his lover at home.
Of course, sometimes there is another phenomenon, in which men and women are still different:
If a woman has another lover outside, at this time, the woman will be particularly bad for her husband, because women are emotional animals, and they are often more impulsive in their feelings, so when they have other people outside, their attitude towards their husbands will also produce some bad changes.
If a man has another lover outside, the man actually has a sense of responsibility in the relationship, if there is a wife and children in the family, and there is another person outside, sometimes men will feel very remorseful.
So you will find that there are many men who have other women outside, and their attitude towards their wives will become better and better, and maybe this man did not understand romance before.
But after having a lover outside, he would occasionally send a bouquet of flowers to his wife, or a jewelry or something like that.
Some women still think that this man has become better, in fact, men just send these things to satisfy the guilt in their hearts.
And sometimes it is also the lover outside who teaches this man to be romantic, so at this time, men can send to their wives, and at this point, women must be clear.
Although men have sent you so many things, it does not mean that they are sincere to you, but that there must be demons when things go wrong.
02.
Be wary of those around you
If a person still has a lover on the outside in his heart, then at this time he will be wary of everything around him, because he is very afraid that his own matter will be exposed.
If their own things will be exposed, then it will bring corresponding consequences, many people do not want this matter to be known by others, unless they have a full certainty, when others know this matter, they can retreat, then at this time they are actually not afraid of things exposed.
But this matter with the lover outside is often unable to make themselves retreat, so many people are still very afraid of being discovered by others.
If you find that your lover has suddenly become very sensitive to everything around you, and usually become suspicious, then at this time, you must ask the other person what is thinking in his heart? If you are asking the other party, the other party's eyes are evasive, and you are particularly flustered, indicating that the other party has a ghost in his heart.
When a person treats his lover, he cannot be suspicious of god, but if there are some situations in his lover, we must also know how to observe carefully.
The reason why a person is wary of the things around him is because there are ghosts in this person's heart, and he is afraid of being exposed by others, so when he sees some of the actions of others, his heart will be very sensitive, so at this time, he will become nervous.
In fact, sometimes others do not find something about you, but your abnormality exposes your inner thoughts.
03.
Often look at mobile phones behind other people's backs
Mobile phones are a tool for chatting with others, and many people and their lovers also communicate on mobile phones.
If your lover is not wary of you and is very sincere with you, then your lover will definitely let you look at your mobile phone, and it is impossible to hold a mobile phone all day, for fear of letting you see.
Some people also have to avoid their lovers when answering the phone, indicating that there are ghosts in this person's hearts, and some people secretly hide in the bed to send messages to others, afraid that their lovers will find out, such people are also ghosts.
If a person has been in love, you will find your object, if you avoid playing with your mobile phone, do not let you look at your own mobile phone, but also call it your own privacy.
Or when you look at the mobile phone, the other party snatched the mobile phone, indicating that there is a ghost in the heart of this person, such an object will split legs nine times out of ten, and in the end it may be with the person chatting on the mobile phone.
The same is true in marriage, if a person does not let their lover look at the phone, then the person must have a problem. At this point, it must be clear that if the other party has this move, it must be planned early.
If a person has a lover in his heart, he will have these anomalies above.
Chinese has a good saying:
"Contented people are always happy."
Since you have chosen to be with your lover, or with your lover, then you must treat each other sincerely, no longer hide some flowers and intestines in your heart, only by treating feelings wholeheartedly, you can harvest beauty, otherwise you can only harm others and harm yourself, and in the end it is likely to be empty.