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30 years ago, in family planning, it was advocated that one family should have one, and many families would rather be fined than have children.
After 30 years, encouraging the birth of three children, various incentive policies for having three children, young people are afraid to watch and not practice.
30 years ago, the child was born on the line, don't worry too much, feed one is to raise, feed two, three are raised, it is better to raise two or three at once, raise one too much loss, the same energy and time.
30 years later, feeding two or three children at once? What a joke, raising a month will bring down the body of your father and mother.
What is the meaning of getting married and having a baby? Netizens post pictures
It is said that marriage is very deep in the "cruelty" of women, so that a beautiful girl eventually becomes a, uh, middle-aged woman who is difficult to say.
In fact, the "cruelty" of marriage to men is not shallow, but men don't seem to care so much about this matter.
A netizen posted a group photo of the husband and wife before and after marriage and after the marriage and the baby, the family of three took a group photo, the meaning of marriage does not need to be explained, it is in the picture.
Inexplicably poking in the laughter, but also let people can't help but like, after laughing, I feel that the meaning of getting married and having children seems to be nothing, at least until the children grow up, there is nothing.
We always feel that getting married and having children has a great impact on women, in fact, marriage and having children have the same great impact on men, but men's feelings are easy to be ignored, because men are not as rich and delicate as women's feelings, and it is not easy to express their feelings.
After getting married and having children, men are the most likely people to change dramatically
We often say that women change too much after marriage, especially after giving birth to a baby, it is easy to get fat, in fact, men are more likely to get fat.
But the prejudice in marriage is that women get fat because they don't have time to take care of themselves, and all their energy is put into the family and into taking care of the children.
And when men get fat, they will be considered to be delicious and lazy.
In fact, it is probably such a truth, but men are still a little innocent.
Men may still maintain a certain figure after marriage, but after having a baby, it is difficult to maintain a figure and it is easy to change their appearance.
Two reasons can not be ignored, on the one hand, the age has arrived, the metabolism is slow, on the other hand, the pressure of men is gone, the amount of food is long, and life is worry-free and naturally blessed.
In addition to these two reasons, there are other aspects, for example, in fact, men will also pay attention to their own figure before marriage, there will be body management, but after marriage and have a baby, men also have no time to pay attention to these, in men's hearts, with wives and children, of course, do not pay attention to these.
If a man has a wife and children, but also pay attention to his external image, thinking about slimming all day, if he is not a star or related profession, then the wife should be concerned about it, indicating that the husband has a problem.
Whether it is a man or a woman, after reaching a certain age, the metabolism will weaken, and as life is on the right track, it becomes more and more comfortable, and the body skin is natural.
What does having a baby mean for men and women?
In different eras, the meaning of having children is naturally different, and people in the parents' era have children for the sake of old-age care, and this concept is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
In this era, if you ask the meaning of having children again, young parents will rarely say that it is to "prevent aging".
In the process of children's growth, the warmth that can be brought to their parents is far more than that of their parents.
When we recognize this, it will be easier to maintain a healthy parenting path and let the child grow up healthily.
In fact, I have always misunderstood my husband before, I always think that the baby has always been taken care of by me, and my husband has not contributed to the education of children.
Since the baby entered the school, I changed my attitude, the baby's school affairs are all in charge of the father, the school's various notices are also watched by him, I don't have to worry about it at all.
In a family, the roles of father and mother are not the same, and the way two people take the baby is naturally different, but one thing is certain, as long as the two parties are really thinking about the family and really care about the child, then the goal of the two people is the same, and the love for the child is the same.
There is no need for us to demand that men and women be exactly the same, because men will not ask women to be exactly the same as men, as long as they are willing to pay for children and families, there is nothing to worry about on both sides.
The significance of getting married and having children probably lies in making a family relationship more close, making the relationship between husband and wife more close, and making family life more colorful.
In the process of maintaining family relations, the forms of payment between the two parties are different, the way of paying is different, but they should be affirmed, and when two people have differences, they should communicate harmoniously, rather than degrading each other, and accelerate the speed of family division.
Why do some couples, when they have no children, have a harmonious relationship, and after having children, the relationship becomes worse and worse? It is because the hearts of two people are not on the same line, and more tolerance and communication can solve the problem.