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Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

Wen | thirteenth sister

Last night I was immersed in my studies when I suddenly received a video from my child's father. As we all know, middle-aged couples will not send WeChat casually if there is nothing important, I have to take a look.

In the video, a group of middle-aged men had dinner during the New Year, and someone proposed that "you are not allowed to go home without receiving a call from your wife", but until 12 o'clock in the night, only one man received the call and went home happily. There was a large table left, and a dozen middle-aged men continued to stay up dejectedly, and the last phone did not ring, and they really couldn't stay up before dispersing.

The middle-aged man is unclaimed, and the middle-aged woman ignores it, truly interpreting the iron-clad friendship of the middle-aged couple, and the relationship between men and women is not only pure, but also not sticky.

Although I understood the content, I didn't wake up because I was still immersed in the ocean of knowledge, so I didn't pay attention to the child and his father.

After a while, he came out of the bathroom and said to me: "I went out for a ride, it's been half an hour back, you don't know that I've gone out and come back"...

So I took the time out of my busy schedule to glance at him, and found that his eyes were as aggrieved as Erkang was betrayed by Ziwei, probably empathizing with those big brothers in the video, middle-aged men who were not paid attention to or even treated as air, suddenly realized that they could come and go like the wind without leaving a trace, and for a while it was a little difficult to settle.

Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

In fact, as long as you think rationally, you can know why middle-aged men are not urged to go home. Why do I urge you to come back, do I want you to come back and occupy a toilet, spread out a table of electric soldering irons, create kitchen waste, harass your baby's homework, or block my wifi signal?

Big brother, you are not Erkang, I am not Ziwei, don't forget that we are both fuel-saving lamps, have you watched too much of "One Hundred Years of Solitude"?

Although the atmosphere was a little turbulent at that moment, I also wanted to wrestle with him, but between Freud and the child and his father, I still decisively chose the former, after all, it was not far from the deadline for handing in homework.

Homework and husband, this is not a multiple-choice question, this is a elimination question, directly eliminate the husband.

Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

In fact, between many things and husbands, we will give preference to the former. That's why the thirteenth brother-in-law always ranks fourth at home, and sometimes he ranks fifth and sixth, with sweepers and air conditioners taking precedence over him. As long as he doesn't break the law, doesn't cause trouble, and can live, I'm even willing to let him go to Ninguta to find poetry and distant places.

Isn't having absolute freedom their life's pursuit?

Men who have been married for more than ten years can basically achieve this freedom, which wife is so idle that she stares at her husband every day? Normal women's minds are not on this, and they don't pay much attention to their husbands than Gao Qiqiang.

You big brothers really don't need to feel sad and lonely, just like when you decisively grabbed BBBBB when asked "who would you like to spend a pleasant weekend with", this game is a tie.

You see, all old husbands and wives, thousand-year-old foxes don't act and chat, we are not each other's preferred options.

Middle-aged men will not be urged to have dinner until midnight, just as we ask our sisters out for three or five days and don't want anyone to disturb them.

What's more, middle-aged women are very pragmatic, there is a kind of quiet years called "husband is not at home", you can go out as long as you want, as long as I don't take my son out I won't urge or ask, after all, the son is biological, Nietzsche said: The biggest risk of the baby comes from the father who takes him out.

Many couples now get along better than brothers and comrades-in-arms, and have become Taoist friends.

The depth of Taoist friendship pays attention to the integration of the three teachings of Confucianism and Taoism, the four are empty, the understanding of the mind and the uniqueness of the truth.

Everyone began to pursue inner peace, anyway, the task of reproduction has been completed, and the rest of the days, for each other to live into a magic foot high and a foot high parallel line, return to the origin of life, and implement Lao Zhuang's quiet and inactive thinking into the technology and ruthlessness refined in marriage practice.

Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

Speaking of which, I have to mention a distant friend of mine, I video chatted with her during the New Year, and after chatting for a long time, I asked her: "What about your husband?" She said, "I don't know, I'll look for it." After a while, she ran back to me and said, "I didn't find it, I'll call him." After the call, her husband staggered over, said hello to me, and said: "I'm sorry, I just woke up"...

I asked my friend, "Your husband is so big that you can't find him when he sleeps in bed?" ”

She said: "I didn't know he slept in the day, and besides, I never went into his bedroom. ”

At that moment, I understood why she changed from a small three-bedroom in the city to a large villa in the suburbs. At home, the husband and wife can't see each other, and finding each other depends on phone calls, the point is: the number of bedrooms in the home determines the stability of the couple.

They are also a pair of models of living pure Taoists, the women meditate and practice yoga every day, and the men indulge in fishing and raising flowers, without interfering with each other. Occasionally meet each other, exchange health skills, share some insights about life, communicate on demand, and set the scale according to the mood, which is an excellent health preservation marriage relationship.

Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

In the past, some people said that they did not understand this pattern, and I can only say that it is that they have not yet reached the realm.

In marriage, glue like paint is a model, and living as a Taoist friend is also a model, regardless of high or low, noble or low, there is no difference between good and bad.

Even if it is a sexless marriage, as long as you can find a way to live in harmony, it is an interpretation of the great wisdom of "color is empty, emptiness is color". Sometimes "emptiness" is better than "fullness" in marriage, which is the greater harmony of life at a higher level.

Many middle-aged couples have become Taoist friends

Whether it is becoming a brother, a comrade-in-arms, or a partner, it turns out that it is just a prelude to marriage, and the highest realm is becoming a friend. At that time, there will be no more worldly disputes, neither side will care much about each other's whereabouts, and there will be more freedom and space, and there will be only one common goal: to maintain health and life, and avoid being greatly damaged by each other.

All actions that are conducive to inner peace are correct, and all actions that are detrimental to cardiovascular health are meaningless. Everyone has some freedom, but also a little responsibility, to cooperate with each other in the spirit of humanitarianism and cultivate immortals together at the junction line.

The freedom of being unmarried can only be regarded as loneliness, and the freedom of being married is the high-end game.

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