A man who truly loves you will be afraid that you will do these few things for him

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In feelings, it is probably such a state, the more a person loves another person, the more some things are afraid of the other party to do for themselves, and some things are more afraid of others to bear for themselves.

One person loves another person, probably with all their heart, with all their heart.

A man who doesn't love you is willing to see you do anything for him, and is willing to see you for him and become what he likes.

Because he has not considered your feelings from beginning to end, all he cares about is himself, because he has not taken into account your thoughts from beginning to end, he only cares about what he gets.

A man who truly loves you doesn't want you to make any changes for him, because what he loves is what you are, and what he loves is what you are.

A man who truly loves you will be afraid that you will do these few things for him and vice versa.

1. I am most afraid that you will be wronged for him

A friend told such a story, she married at the age of 30, and her life before the age of 30 was smooth sailing and did not suffer any grievances.

But after she married her husband, because there was no one to take care of the children, her husband got her mother-in-law up.

The husband's biggest hope at the beginning was that someone in the family would come to help with the children, and the wife would be more relaxed.

However, the way the mother-in-law gets along is unacceptable to the woman, and although they are all family, in the eyes of the mother-in-law, the son is her own, and the daughter-in-law is someone else's family.

Once, my mother-in-law gave two small bites from work and ordered a bowl of beef noodles.

The mother-in-law first gave it to her daughter-in-law, which contained three large pieces of beef, and the mother-in-law brought a bowl to her son.

Just when the baby woke up, the daughter-in-law was going to feed the baby, and she said: "Husband, there are too many noodles, I can't finish eating, you clip a little past." ”

When my husband sandwiched noodles, he found that there were only three pieces of beef in his wife's bowl, and in his own bowl, although there was only one piece of beef on the noodles, there were eight large pieces of beef hidden at the bottom of the bowl.

The husband later remembered that the daughter-in-law's grievances at home may be more than this, but the daughter-in-law has never complained to her husband.

He didn't like women, wronged because of himself; he didn't like his mother's favoritism.

Later, after he talked to his mother and talked for a long time all night, this never happened again.

You must know that a man who truly loves you, a man who truly loves you, is not willing to let you be wronged for him, and he is most afraid that you will be wronged for him.

2. I am most afraid that you will take on everything in life

If in any relationship, it's the woman who ends up holding it all up, at least in some ways, the man is the incompetent.

A man who doesn't have so much affection for you, but likes to take advantage of you, he wants you to make money for him, he wants you to give him your salary every month, he wants to squeeze dry, every penny on you.

Because he doesn't love you, he doesn't care if you work hard, he doesn't care if you're tired or not, he doesn't care how every penny you earn comes from, he just has money to spend.

Because from the beginning to the end, he didn't think about you, and he didn't plan to think about you.

If a man loves you, he is not willing to give you up at all, and doing this for him is a person who picks up the burden of life.

He felt that he was a man who stood tall in the sky, that he had to carry everything, and that he could not let his woman, his own children, suffer in vain with him.

A person who really hurts you will care whether you are tired or not, whether you are hard or not; a person who really hurts you is not willing to let you carry all the burdens of life for him, because he has to carry it himself.

3. I am most afraid that you will save money for him

A man who truly loves you, the most feared thing is that you will save him money.

You are reluctant to buy yourself, buy any good thing, what you want to eat, you are not willing to buy for yourself.

Because you feel that life is very sad, every penny you spend you have to spend on the blade of the knife.

A man who doesn't love you, whether you save money for him or he spends your money, he doesn't care.

Because he doesn't care about your feelings or your thoughts, he only cares about himself, and he cares more about his own getting and being happy.

Because a man who truly loves you, when he sees you save him money, his heart will feel uncomfortable and painful.

When he's with you, he's trying to give you the best life possible, to make you live a life that makes others envious, not to let you save money for him, to live this stretched life.

So he's going to work harder for you, he's working three jobs a day, he's saving every penny of his own money, he wants to buy a house and a car, he needs to give you a home, he wants you to go out and have a car.

He feels that giving you a good life and allowing you to live a carefree life is the greatest happiness in his life, he is willing to work hard for you, and he is willing to eat the hardships of life for you.

When a man holds a true heart and comes to love you, he must be honest with each other, he must be the most gentle.

Because he is hurting you every day, he is most afraid of you doing these few things for him, and he feels that when you do it for him, he is not worthy of loving you, and he can't give you a good life.

The man who really loves you is most afraid that you will be wronged for him, but never tell him;

The man who truly loves you is most afraid that you will bear everything in life alone, but he can't do anything;

The man who really loves you, the most afraid of you is that you save money for him, because he really wants to give you a better life.

However, women should not attach themselves to men, and feel that there are men who give you all the happiness that you have with both hands.

Whether life is tired or not, you must insist on your work, you must maintain your economic independence, you must learn to be alone, face the ups and downs of life.

Men love you, you cherish it; men are good to you, you continue; men are willing to spend money, you have to accept it with peace of mind; if there is no man to love you well, then you choose to bloom alone.

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