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What kind of marriage can be regarded as a joy in the world
Liu Li/Wen
The natural attraction of "Our Marriage" to me is not only limited to the acting skills of those leading specific characters, but also lies in the thinking about the value and existence of marriage.
In it, we can completely divide the women inside into three categories: one is a full-time wife like Jiang Jing, the other is naturally a strong woman in the workplace represented by Dong Sijia, and the third is a new woman who is like Shen Yanxing as a symbol who wanders in the balance of family and workplace. Li Xiaotian is naturally not among them, this elderly leftover woman who has always longed for a true feeling under the guise of unmarriedism is obviously extremely envious of Shen Comet's family balancing technique, and it just so happens that Huo Liankai, who met her for the project and eventually had an ambiguity that made her pregnant, was an old classmate of Shen Comet's husband Sheng Jiangchuan.
Coincidentally, three women living in the same community were eventually led by Shen Yanxing, and then thoroughly knew each other. This fully shows that Shen Yanxing is the middleman, and she can mediate many relationships. At the same time, it is not difficult to see from the play that although Sheng Jiangchuan was initially domineering and completely a macho style, he and Shen Comet belong to the kind of elite that will seriously reflect. From the initial state of separation to the gradual running-in later, this is a rare rational thinking in modern society. This kind of thinking must and must ultimately affect the self-reflection of others.
Fundamentally, Comet Shen is an outsider. Such a woman who has been a housewife at home for six years is aware of her family crisis, her fiery temperament is as confident as her favorite street dance, she is determined to go out to work, and very easily stepped into the door of Yunqing Kamo Capital and became a member of the cadres. It can be seen that although Shen Yanxing is a housewife, she has not broken her wings, and her self-confidence and great courage itself carries wind and fire. In this regard, Jiang Jing is obviously very lacking, although she is intellectually elegant, but directly killed into dust from her husband Lu Weibin.
Women without economic independence are like Ping Floating Water, there is absolutely no chance of resistance, and only economically independent working women must in turn be able to balance their family relationships well, otherwise they will be like dead wood, losing their due nutrients and becoming vulnerable.
Across the three families, each person's attitude towards marriage is absolutely different. Shen Yanxing has been worrying about her family for six years, and she has supported her husband Sheng Jiangchuan to grow up step by step in the workplace from the perspective of life, but she will never lose her personality, let alone lose herself. This obviously stems from her family, and her father's tolerance and mother's freedom have given Shen Comet a strong gene for independent personality, which she eventually translates into her own careful thinking.
Grasp what should be caught, give up what should be abandoned. The trade-offs in life are often an incomparably firm indication of everyone's values. Shen Yanxing changed Sheng Jiangchuan, but also changed Dong Sijia and Jiang Jing.
Dong Sijia is a powerful person in his career, so powerful that it is suffocating. She had never taken a day off, and it seemed her sacred mission to spin continuously. She also enjoyed it all very much. What she didn't know, however, was that Shen Yanxing, Jiang Jing, and her husband Li Yuwen, who lived in the same neighborhood, had become the best friends. What she didn't know was that her family had already lit up red lights and was in danger. She didn't even know that her intentional or unintentional sense of superiority and hidden marriage had already deeply stabbed her husband Li Yuwen. However, Li Yuwen still endured, until he wanted to participate in a project that he loved but could not bring identity and money but was ruthlessly torn apart by Dong Sijia, Li Yuwen was finally angry, but he finally chose to go to the so-called "joke five thousand years" self-media company that Dong Sijia found for him as a cultural director for his family. However, in the end, because the gap between the three views was too large, he had to resign indignantly, which became the last straw that overwhelmed the marriage. Li Yuwen directly confessed to Dong Sijia that he wanted to liberate himself and let everyone live the life they wanted. At this time, Dong Sijia still did not realize his own problem, but instead thought that Li Yuwen and Jiang Jing had an affair. Although she was able to gradually change the way she relied on alcoholism to calm her emotions, she still involuntarily asked Shen Yanxing for Jiang Jing's contact information and communicated with Jiang Jing face to face. Jiang Jing's sentence "You personally broke his wings, but in turn complained that he can't fly" made Dong Sijia cry, and it wasn't until that moment that she finally understood how much the man who had been hurt by herself had paid for her. This is just like Sheng Jiang Chuan only knew that it was difficult to do anything when he took care of his family and even carried the garbage bag. It's just that she, a strong woman, understands too late, and Sheng Jiangchuan can stop the loss in time in the face of a strong life. As a result, Dong Sijia began to learn to change, she directly chose to respect her husband, and on the day of the company's celebration, her husband was disclosed, and Li Yuwen's finally recognized eyes obviously let us see that their marriage was back. And Dong Sijia, a person who never asks for leave, shamefully asks the boss to take a leave of absence to see the child's piano performance, which makes everyone petrify the whole scene, and her further request not to travel on weekends has surprised everyone. However, this return shows very clearly that the originally lovely Dong Sijia has returned, and she will definitely do better and better in the balance of work and family in the future.
Jiang Jing is another situation. As early as before marriage, she was deceived by Lu Weibin, the investor of the scum of the scum, eight years of labor in exchange for the fate of leaving the house, fortunately her children have grown up, under her careful care can know how to understand the mother, but also recognize the shame of the father. In this marriage full of calculations and intrigues, there is actually no winner, and Lu Weibin has obviously won money, or successfully exposed the face of a loveless and ruthless investor, which is the same as Cao Daren, the boss of ShengjiangChuan. The two felt sorry for each other, so that Sheng Jiangchuan was like a needle felt, and Sheng Jiangchuan finally couldn't help but penetrate the bottom to his wife Shen Comet, but unfortunately Lu Weibin had already prepared for it, and all the bottom was finally adrift. However, no matter what, Jiang Jing successfully got rid of Lu Weibin, and was able to finally find the job of her choice smoothly, which was a happy ending, and this woman who should have been an elite in the workplace is estimated to be more and more outstanding. As for Lu Weibin, who has been calculating until he dies, in addition to not being able to obtain the true heart, it is estimated that he will one day be pecked by the eagle.
The pursuit of capital for profit can be described as vividly revealed in this drama, but what is valuable is those who persist, the music of Zhong Yu, the cloth of Uncle Gong, and the game of the yellow whale, they are all the adherents of this era, and no one refuses to give up their dreams. What is the significance of the buying and scalping of those capitals, as Sheng Jiangchuan said? A good era requires courage and persistence, dreams, and a vision for the future and down-to-earth practice.
Zhong Yu insists on not selling music, he only hopes to let the two music models coexist; Uncle Shu insists on his dreams and is never willing to be eroded by capital; Yellow Whale keeps his original intention and hopes to keep his technology in his country. They should become the darlings of this era of fame and profit, and then eventually become the giants of the times. Gao Qing took up the great task of national rejuvenation.
It's a spin-off of Our Marriage. Marriage needs to be kept fresh, it needs the patience, forgiveness, understanding and tolerance of both parties, and this thousand-year-old unchanging truth has never gone far, it has always remained in our beliefs.
——2022.3.15
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