In our traditional concept, we all advocate "male and female", and the education we receive from childhood is that men should be responsible for earning money to support their families and provide better material conditions for the family. After marriage, a woman should return to the family to teach her husband and children to provide a firm and reliable rear guarantee for her husband.
Recently watched the trailer of Tencent Video's "Our Marriage", breaking the convention in the parenting model, it is Li Yuwen, played by Ann, who is talented but willing to pay, and returns to the family to become a full-time father. Dong Sijia, played by Jiang Xin, is a strong, confident woman who never takes a day off for her family.
Are a lot of women clapping their hands and giving a thumbs up for such a combination? There will even be people chanting "Society has progressed!" But the lines in the play are also really heart-wrenching, "Now a man returns to the house with a child, you can be drowned by the spit star." ”
In the traditional concept, full-time fathers will naturally be looked down upon, and fathers with children at home will be narrowly considered by some people to "fail to fulfill the family responsibilities that men should bear" and "earn money for the big" responsibilities.
Li Yuwen's efforts have fulfilled Dong Sijia, and also made her single-minded in her career to become a real strong woman in the financial street! Unfortunately, full-time parenting is the most thankless job in the world, doing the most tiring work, but often looked down upon.
Dong Sijia, who is slaying the whole scene in the career of "Our Marriage", the family cannot avoid taking care of it, and the husband who is full-time child-rearing seems to be gradually drifting away. After the collapse of the full-time father Li Yuwen, he said to his wife for a long time: "That is your world, not mine, I want to liberate, so that we can both live the life we want." ”
Are the grievances of stay-at-home dads the same as those of stay-at-home moms?
After the imbalance between family and career, what choice do Dong Sijia and Li Yuwen have to make? This drama may provide some ideas for many families to broaden their horizons, and it is worth watching.