The full-time father discussed returning to the workplace with his wife, and the wife poured cold water mercilessly: "Looking for a nanny at least 6000-7000 a month, the child has to go to class to find someone who can drive, the price is different, the piano teacher comes to tutor, the mortgage property fee, the publisher's salary is not enough for these expenses, right?"
"But I think the meaning and value of work cannot be fully measured by money." Stay-at-home dads try to convince a strong wife.
Unfortunately, the wife heard "meaning and value" and immediately threw out the professional views of her investors: "The kind of work in the publishing house is poor, and when you look for a job, you either find a high-income person or a social status." Otherwise, you have affected your son's study and life, which is not worth the loss. ”
Every word the wife said was in line with reality, but the words were like a knife, the knife plunged into the man's heart, the man was beaten to a low mood, knowing that there was no need to continue to discuss, reluctantly withdrew an ugly smile: "Drink the soup first." ”
This is the story in the TV series "Our Marriage" starring Bai Baihe, Tong Dawei, Jiang Xin and others, it is the full-time father Li Yuwen played by An who is a Kochi element, 5 years ago, his son was abused by a nanny, Li Yuwen resigned decisively and returned home as a family cook.
For more than 5 years, he devoted himself to taking care of his wife and educating his son, educating him to be both polite and critical, and was a preschool "other people's child." ”
All the affairs of the family, Li Yuwen took care of it well, he had a good mentality, consistently supported and understood the hardships of his wife's hard work in the workplace, and always patiently advised his son in the face of his son's complaints to his mother.
It is precisely because the rear is stable that Dong Sijia, played by Jiang Xin, can charge forward in the workplace without distraction, sit in the position of senior manager, and become an important woman in the financial circle.
Over time, she forgot that half of all her achievements today were bought by her husband's efforts and her son's grievances, and she still had a guilty heart for her son, not only was she indifferent to her husband, but she took the other party's efforts for granted, and even began to look down on her husband.
Once, in the top forum of the financial circle, when the boss gave her an invitation letter, she told her to take her husband with her, and when she returned home, she only mentioned to her husband that she needed to drive away to attend the forum on the weekend, and did not mention anything about bringing her family.
Because the men who participated in the forum are all big men in the financial circle, and her husband is just a history-loving cook, she feels that losing face will affect her professional image and future.
When Li Yuwen suddenly proposed to return to the workplace, Dong Sijia said that he supported it, but in fact he was unwilling in his heart.
Therefore, she gives professional advice, because she understands her husband, who does not have much pursuit of fame and fortune, otherwise he would not be reluctant to change tracks with the job of the publishing house.
Originally, it was only a couple with different family divisions of labor, under Dong Sijia's strength and lack of gratitude, the imbalance was bound to become more and more serious, and the marriage would crack sooner or later.
After all, we are all ordinary people, and all our efforts need to be seen, recognized, understood, and cared for, even if it is ourselves who are hurt and tortured because of love because of children's compromises.
