#我们的婚姻征文 #
The recent film and television drama "Our Marriage", which has recently been broadcast on Tencent Video and Beijing Satellite TV, is really extraordinary. There are four couples in the play whose moral philosophy of life makes us think deeply. It also better explains that only by respecting each other, weighing their responsibilities and positions in the family, and thinking in each other's shoes can couples better manage their homes and maintain the longest-term family relationship in marriage.
01 Husband Sheng Jiangchuan (played by Tong Dawei) and wife Shen Huixing (played by Bai Lily)
They are the first couple in the play. Husband and wife life mode: first the male protagonist outside the female protagonist, six years later evolved into a husband and wife both working together.
Sheng Jiangchuan and Shen Huixing are high-caliber students in the School of Finance and opponents in the debate forum. Because of the marriage Shen Huixing's pregnant daughter, she was forced to give up her high education to choose to take a baby at home and occasionally dance the rock music she loved. Husband Sheng Jiangchuan is a rare talent in the financial industry, mixed with the wind and water, shouldering the heavy responsibility of supporting the family. In order to let his wife and daughter live a top life, work hard, buy a house early to upgrade the family's consumption. Six years later, when Shen Huixing fulfilled his original promise and chose to make a comeback, the husband and wife faced the contradictions caused by a series of problems faced by work and baby, resulting in differences and divorce. In the end, Sheng Jiangchuan deeply realized that his wife's efforts in the past six years were not easy to pay through his own hands, and finally understood the emotional experience of respecting his wife, and the two people gave up the emotional experience of the old self and returning to the good. The two sides have made two-pronged efforts to reflect their own value on their respective financial platforms, so that the couple has been recognized by the financial industry.
02 Wife Dong Sijia (jiang xin) and husband Li Yuwen (played by An)
They are the second couple in the play. Husband and wife life mode: female protagonist outside male protagonist.
His wife, Dong Sijia, is a sister in the financial industry. She is a full-time mom in the workplace. In order to support his wife's work husband Li Yuwen gave up his title of high talent in the history department and was willing to be the green leaf behind his wife, work as a family cook at home, teach his wife and children, and let his wife devote himself to the workplace and never worry about the family. In particular, Li Yuwen sends birthday gifts to his father-in-law every year for his birthday, but he does his own thing but lets his wife keep his name. Is an admirable and responsible good man. And not a soft-eaten man who makes some people look at it. Later, Li Yuwen wanted to regain his self-esteem and social status and had contradictions and differences with his wife, resulting in divorce. Li Yuwen also regained his profession and returned to social recognition. Later, under the influence of her husband, Dong Sijia slowly became family-centered and reconciled with her husband's abandonment of her former suspicions.
03 Wife Jiang Jing (played by Cao Xiwen) Husband Lu Weibin (played by Tong Yue)
They are the third couple in the play. Husband and wife life mode: male outside the female protagonist
The husband is working hard to support the family outside, the wife treats the husband as the boss, the little woman teaches the husband at home, there is no family status and no right to speak, even if the evidence of the husband's cheating does not dare to extend, and finally saw the husband with other women finally broke out, and after divorcing the husband, she re-faded into a professional woman and found her former dignity and self-confidence. No longer a weak little woman who extends her hand to her husband.
04 Li Xiaotian (Gao Ye) Huo Liankai (Wang Xiao)
They are the fourth simulated couple in the play. The future mode of husband and wife life: in the financial workplace, they will work hard with each other, regardless of whether they are different.
Holrenkai is an unmarried person, believing that marrying a wife is the most loss-making investment. Li Xiaotian is versatile, can paint and cook, and is a woman with a high taste in life. She believes that women have their own cars, houses, status, ability and money, and that finding a boyfriend is to find themselves tired. Later, in the work, he and Huo Liankai and huo Liankai intersected in getting along, and finally changed the wrong views and positions of both sides and finally walked together.
Looking at the marriage life mode of these four couples, it is also the marriage value that the vast majority of couples agree with in their hearts. No matter what kind of mode of getting along the husband and wife choose, no matter the weight of the position, you must know that the relationship between your husband and wife is only mutual understanding and tolerance, and there are things to discuss and communicate with each other. Do not be jealous of each other, know how to respect each other, do their duty in life, do not seek returns for the sake of each other, then in the run-in and indoctrination of each other's life can have a happy and beautiful married life for a long time, which is also a preservative that makes a marriage last forever.