Since the pregnancy of the baby, many couples no longer have a husband and wife life, even if in the second trimester can be appropriately intimate, but many couples consider the health problems of the fetus, so most of them choose to be patient, thinking of waiting until after childbirth to resume husband and wife life.
When pregnant mothers have given birth, when they can return to intimacy has become a big question, some couples will be earlier, some couples will be later. Relatively speaking, it is natural that later will be more beneficial to the recovery of the mother, but some couples neglect this, resulting in a greater impact on the mother.
Case: Premature resumption of marital life after childbirth, angrily denounced by doctors as "irresponsible"
Xiao Zhou is with her husband to know each other, the two people got married after three months, and became pregnant with the baby in the second month after marriage, considering that Xiao Zhou is 33 years old, so after pregnancy, Xiao Zhou became very cautious, afraid of what problems.
When it was the second trimester, Xiao Zhou went to the hospital for a maternity examination, when the doctor hinted that it was possible to live as a couple, but we must be careful. Although Xiao Zhou and her husband understood the doctor's hints, Xiao Zhou and her husband decided to put up with it, fearing that it would affect the baby in their stomachs.
Wait until Xiao Zhou gave birth to the baby, Xiao Zhou was a normal birth, and the doctor also said that the recovery would be faster in the case of normal delivery. It's just that because the fetus is larger, there are 8 pounds and 2 pairs, so there was a more serious side incision situation during the normal delivery, and the doctor said that the recovery time may be slightly longer, so pay more attention.
Xiao Zhou's confinement period is also very careful, and after the confinement, the postpartum examination results are also good. So the husband felt that he could try to restore the husband and wife life, but what he did not expect was that Xiao Zhou was in pain that day and was forced to terminate.
And after that, Xiao Zhou had intermittent bleeding, and the secretions had become more abnormal. Hurriedly went to the hospital for examination, the result was angrily reprimanded by the doctor "irresponsible", the doctor said that Xiao Zhou's reproductive system has not been fully restored, premature resumption of husband and wife life, not only affected the recovery situation, but also brought greater harm to Xiao Zhou, there was a more serious gynecological inflammation.
Xiao Zhou and her husband did not expect this to be the case, and Xiao Zhou honestly received treatment in the follow-up, and did not dare to easily carry out intimate behavior. It wasn't until the re-examination that the doctor was relieved to confirm that there was no problem.
01 Premature postpartum restoration of intimacy, two major "sequelae" are obvious, at least to survive this time
Usually, after giving birth, women's reproductive system will suffer "heavy damage" and serious injuries, which is why a longer recovery period is needed.
If the woman resumes the conjugal life prematurely, then on the one hand, it is likely that there will be another perineal tear or a vaginal tear, and if the cervix has not been fully restored at this time, it may also be torn again, accompanied by bleeding, and a strong sense of pain, affecting the healing after subsequent injuries.
If the situation is more serious, it is also possible to damage the ligaments of the reproductive system, leaving sequelae behind, so that future couple behavior will cause pain.
On the other hand, after giving birth to a child, the endometrium and other reproductive organs need a long time to recover, the cervical orifice has not been completely closed, if the husband and wife life is restored too early, then it is likely to have the problem of bacterial infection, resulting in various gynecological inflammations in women, including cervicitis, endometritis, pelvic inflammatory disease, adnexitis, etc., which may seriously affect the health of the entire reproductive system, and affect the re-pregnancy, and even lose the opportunity to conceive a second or third child.
Therefore, women who have both vaginal births and caesarean sections have to survive at least two months after childbirth to resume their married life. For some women with a long recovery time, it is best to wait a little longer to ensure that there is no impact on the reproductive system.
You know, the female reproductive system is equivalent to the second "living body" of women, women must know how to protect themselves, and the husband must assume a sense of responsibility and do not let the mother be hurt.
Here also to remind the mother, especially those with severe lateral cutting conditions, in the first postpartum resumption of conjugal life, there may be a greater sense of discomfort, so it must be gradual, once the mothers feel uncomfortable, it is best to stop first, adjust the mentality, otherwise it is likely to produce psychological shadows, thus affecting the feelings between husband and wife, if necessary, it is best to go to the hospital to check the specific situation.
In addition, we must pay attention to hygiene and cleanliness after childbirth, otherwise there will be more serious infection problems, which will also affect the recovery situation, or induce inflammation again. In the process of postpartum couple life, it is best to use safety measures, which can not only prevent re-pregnancy in the short term, but also play a role in preventing cross-infection.