In fact, for the mother, there are many things that need to be solved after giving birth, and if these things are not solved clearly, then it is definitely not a good thing for themselves. So don't think that everything will be fine after giving birth, if you really think so, it would be a big mistake. However, in the face of this matter, it is still necessary to consider the long term, do not feel embarrassed, and do not feel that you can not handle it well, and treat it cautiously.
Ms. Zhou's child was not long after birth, because she was not in good health, so when she gave birth, it was as if she had walked through a ghost door. Fortunately, Ms. Zhou's body is still very tough, so there is still no big problem. After giving birth, she began to confinement and recuperate her body, because she felt that only in this way could she make her body better, and this would also make her body recover faster.
However, just after giving birth, there were some extraordinary changes in her body, that is, Ms. Zhou found that her lochia became particularly much, and every time she would get very dirty, and there would be a very bad smell. Every time she faces this problem, Ms. Zhou will feel particularly embarrassed and humiliated. Especially when letting her husband see it, Ms. Zhou's husband also felt very helpless.
However, Ms. Zhou is also experiencing such a thing for the first time, so she does not know how to solve the problem. The main thing was that her body was so weak that she couldn't deal with these lochia at all. Of course, she also didn't want others to help her with her problems, because she felt ashamed. So during this time, her life was not good at all, and Ms. Zhou seemed very depressed.
In fact, this is a very common phenomenon, and there are many things that women need to experience after giving birth, especially these three things, which will make women feel very embarrassed. And the husband will also feel very helpless, but in the face of this problem still needs to be treated positively, otherwise it is easy to leave the root of the disease if it is not handled well, which we still need to clearly understand.
These three things after childbirth must be dealt with in a timely manner
For mothers, one of the most likely things to appear after giving birth is that they become very much lochia, and a large number of lochia are discharged every day. And the physical condition of the mother after giving birth to the child is definitely not so good, so there is no way to deal with lochia, and she needs the people around her to help her to deal with such a problem, otherwise it will be very difficult. Of course, this is also a shameful thing for pregnant women.
However, we still need to be cautious in the face of this problem, especially for those women who have a caesarean section, they have wounds on their own stomachs, if the treatment of lochia involves wounds, then the situation will become very passive. In this way, it is likely to cause the wound to be torn twice, and if it is serious, it will have to be sutured again. So within a week, someone needs to help deal with the lochia.
For the mother, there is another problem after giving birth, that is, the problem of washing the underwear. Many women don't have disposable underwear, so they have to wear regular underwear all the time. When the underwear is dirty, it needs to be washed, but the mothers simply do not have the energy to do this, and they are not embarrassed to let the mother-in-law help them clean the underwear, because they think it is a very humiliating thing.
But we must not think so, if you think that it is a very embarrassing thing to let your mother-in-law wash her underwear, then let your husband serve himself. Don't let your husband be idle, you have to let your husband do something practical for himself. After all, each other are the closest people, and the husband of the pregnant woman will definitely be willing to do these things for the mother, so there is no need to have too much pressure, rest assured and bold to do it.
There is also a problem that is more embarrassing for the mother, that is, after giving birth to the child, the breasts will be particularly swollen and painful, which is still similar to the feeling of coming to the great aunt. Once this problem arises, the mother will feel like a knife and will feel very upset. Especially when the first mother experiences this matter, she will be very sad, and they will not know how to solve the problem.
If we don't want to make our mood depressed, then we should choose a better way to solve the problem. For example, we can prepare a hot towel for the mother, so that the pain can be relieved. And we can help the women with massages, or divert their attention. Mothers should not feel embarrassed, and it will be much better to vent their inner unhappiness.
Therefore, for the mother, after giving birth, it does not mean that she will not fall into trouble, but it still needs to face all this in a rational way. Many things can't be avoided, so it is more necessary to be cautious.