With the implementation of the policy of two and three children, although many post-80s and post-90s have no ideas, some of the post-60s and post-70s are eager to move. Because most of them, because of the influence of the family planning policy, led to the failure to realize the original idea of three children, now it is difficult to achieve, naturally to catch this "hitchhiking". As everyone knows, it is not as easy as imagined to catch this train.
Case: "I gave birth to my own child", the 50-year-old aunt fought for three children, did not listen to the price of persuasion, and ate the bitter fruit
Neighbor Aunt Liu suddenly decided to have three children when she was 50 years old, all because she once saw a 60-something aunt on the news who successfully gave birth to twins, which gave her hopes.
After having this idea, she also expressed her thoughts frankly with her children, but she was directly rejected by her children. The two children's ideas are also very consistent, "You are born now, you can't afford to raise them in the future, and it is not us who are involved." ”
Hearing the words of her children, Aunt Liu directly said, "I give birth to my own children." Because at this time, Aunt Liu thought that she was only 50 years old, her health was relatively good, and she had a certain amount of savings, and there was no problem in raising another child. The character of doing what she said made Aunt Liu successfully conceive the baby in the second year, and after ten months of arduous pregnancy, the child was born.
Originally thought that she could live a happy life from now on, but Aunt Liu did not expect that this was actually the beginning of her torture. Even if Aunt Liu was in good physical condition before pregnancy, after giving birth to the child, the body suddenly became particularly bad, because it was an advanced pregnancy, so the postpartum recovery was particularly slow, and the whole person was more aged for more than ten years, and also left a confinement disease.
Don't say wait until the child grows up, now the child is a few months old, often crying, Aunt Liu and her husband are exhausted, and the child's physique is not good, often in the middle of the night fever, the two from time to time to take the child to the hospital. The eldest and the second saw that their parents did not listen to the advice to give birth to the third child, and they were not willing to intervene to help, and Aunt Liu felt what kind of "bitter fruit" the third child brought to herself.
01 At the age of three, what "risks" may the maternal body face?
In medicine, we call pregnancies for women over the age of 35 "advanced pregnancy", while women over 45 years of age are "ultra-advanced pregnancies". We all know that the risk of advanced pregnancy is originally higher than that of ordinary women, let alone the case of ultra-advanced pregnancy, which is naturally higher, but many people do not take this to heart, and the fundamental reason is that many people do not know the risks involved, so they show an attitude of "ignorant people are fearless".
In fact, the choice of ultra-advanced pregnancy is basically caesarean section in the choice of delivery method, because the probability of difficult delivery during the normal delivery process is extremely high, so many doctors do not recommend risks, but there are also some women who are more stubborn, although there is also a probability of success, but still need to pay more attention, can not take their own and the child's life safety to risk.
Secondly, even if the choice of caesarean section will reduce many pregnancy risks, but the birth does not mean that there will be no risks, there may also be anesthesia failure, heavy bleeding, amniotic fluid embolism, etc., which will also directly threaten the safety of maternal and fetal life.
In addition, in terms of postpartum recovery, ultra-elderly women are also subjected to more pressure and risk. On the one hand, in the case of super advanced age, the function of all aspects of the female body will be much lower, and the metabolic capacity and immunity will be reduced, which also leads to the recovery of the postpartum period will be much slower than other ordinary women, and even may not heal for a long time.
On the other hand, the probability of super-elderly women leaving sequelae after childbirth is also higher, and it is easier to have gynecological inflammation, infection, leakage of urine, migraines, etc. during confinement, and if the recovery is not good, there may be symptoms such as uterine prolapse, which many ultra-elderly women have not imagined before planning to fight.
Not only that, ultra-elderly women are also more likely to have aging problems after childbirth, because ovarian function is greatly affected, and the ovaries are also directly related to their hormones, endocrine system stability, etc., so they look more than ten years older than before pregnancy after childbirth.
Of course, the risks and symptoms mentioned above are only the tip of the iceberg, because ultra-old women really have to face only a lot more problems in childbirth and the postpartum process. Similarly, for newborns, in fact, they have to face a lot of risks, which is why many doctors do not recommend that ultra-elderly groups take risks to fight, after all, for mothers and babies, most of the time it is more harmful than beneficial.
Conclusion: Ultra-advanced pregnancy should be fully prepared, including physical, psychological, material and other aspects, rather than impulsive life, otherwise the cost of regret is very large.