What does it feel like to break 20 ribs at the same time?
Have a baby and try it, and you'll know. This pain can last for 8-24 hours.
Medically, the degree of pain is divided into twelve levels, the highest of which is the pain of pregnant women during childbirth.
Whether to have a caesarean section or a vaginal birth, who has the final say?
Whether it is painless or not, who has the final say?
There should be only one answer: maternity!
Because the pain of childbirth is a little bit of the mother's suffering, no one can share, to say that you can share some, a needle without pain is the most reliable.
But the reality is that most of the time, the mother can't be her own master!
The most just "maternity"
Immediately after giving birth, I got out of bed and beat my husband
Recently, there was a small video that aroused the attention and hot discussion of countless netizens:
A pregnant woman who had just given birth came out of the delivery room, not lying in bed for rest, but rushing out of bed, picking up slippers and beating her husband violently.
What the hell is going on? Can a mother who has just given birth and is still very weak do such an extreme thing?
It turned out that before entering the delivery room to give birth, this mother originally discussed with her husband, and when the various production indications met, she resolutely gave a painless injection to alleviate the pain of childbirth;
Who knows, when it comes to preparing for painlessness, the in-laws suddenly disagree.
Because the mother-in-law felt that it was not good to hit the child without pain, in short, she refused for various reasons.
Because the painless needle needs to be paid and the family needs to sign, the husband listened to the mother-in-law's words and refused to sign, resulting in the mother in the delivery room can not use the painless needle.
In the end, Bao Mom could only do her best to give birth to the baby in the delivery room, but she also saved up her anger, and the first thing she did after giving birth was to rush out of the delivery room to find her husband and beat him.
Bao Ma, who was wearing a hospital gown, was furious, and the three nurses next to her could not stop it, and finally Bao Ma simply took off her shoes and threw them at her husband.
Many netizens have left comments:
"The first time I see a woman who can get out of bed and beat someone after giving birth."
"This mom is a bearer."
"This is how angry you are to come out and settle accounts with your husband just after giving birth."
Some netizens also said that it is understandable that the mother is angry, it is not easy to conceive in October, it is more difficult to have a baby, and the family should experience the hardships of the mother, and should not regret it.
From the perspective of this mother, perhaps it is that the in-laws will only think about their grandchildren, regardless of their own lives and deaths, so they will be particularly angry.
Second, do not fight painlessly,
Not good for you, not for your children?!
For the sake of the child, the mother can give up her life, but for the sake of the lover, some people do not even want to give her a painless anesthetic.
Injecting yourself requires the consent of your family, which is really unreasonable, because others never know how much pain you had at that time.
But because of this system, many people think that painless injections will "affect children", "children will become stupid", "who gives birth to children is not painful, patience will pass. ”
First of all, there is no study in the world today that shows that painless injections affect children's intelligence and normal development, and if you feel that xxx family painless injections result in children feeling stupid, this is mostly related to genetics or the family's family parenting style.
When a helpless woman is in pain in the delivery room and wants to get a painless injection and the family outside does not agree, the harm caused to a pregnant woman is far greater than the so-called "side effects of painless injections".
And, doing so would really make a woman who should have loved him dearly hate him to the bone.
Maternal love is an instinct
Some people say that maternal love is instinctive. That protection of the child is also the mother's instinct.
I once heard such a story:
The mother of the mother is crying when she sees the pregnant woman after giving birth, and the in-laws are laughing.
Yeah, mothers know what their children have just gone through.
How brave they were to break through the ghost gate and win back their children.
It's not about pain!
Fertility pain, not every mother must endure, please turn this popular science article about painless needles to your mothers in need around you~
Painless needles
"Painless needles," also known as "epidural anesthesia" or "epidural anesthesia," are one of the most common techniques used to relieve the pain of childbirth with anesthetic drugs.
How the doctor gives you a painless injection
step1
The doctor will make you sit on the edge of the bed or lie on your side and scrub the middle of your back with disinfectant. Most of the back will be covered by a surgical cover. The doctor will touch your back, find the best injection point, and then inject the anesthetic.
step２
The doctor will prick a very hard needle into your back, usually with a feeling of pressure or tingling. Then, slide a tiny catheter through the needle and pull the needle out.
The irresistible temptation of painless needles
Benefit one: Alleviate suffering, of course. Relieve the pain of vaginal delivery, so that pregnant mothers are not painful;
Benefit two: preserve the combat effectiveness of childbirth. More effective delivery of babies;
Painless injection risk
1. May slow down the course of labour;
Oxytocin may have to be used;
3. May result in forceps production or suction;
4. This may lead to anterior sectioning;
5. It may cause the baby to be drowsy after birth;
To alleviate the pain of childbirth, you can choose painless needles, or you can use some simple methods, such as free walking, changing position, unsustainable lying flat, showering or bathing, to make childbirth more acceptable.
No matter what method you take, knowing the whole process of childbirth, and having enough confidence to be able to give birth to a baby on your own, childbirth is not so scary.
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