I always felt that my mother's broken thoughts were very annoying, and everything had to be managed, and she had to read, and her sudden violent temper was elusive.
However, when I became a mother, I finally understood and understood the meaning of the sentence "When you become a mother in the future, you will understand".
Becoming a mom is really not easy.
@Xiaoyou
Once by chance, I turned to my parents' wedding photos and saw that my mother was really beautiful, and the comparison with now was almost like two people.
I was amazed at how my slim and slender mother had changed so much before. Until I found out I was pregnant, my body was bloated day by day, my weight was constantly soaring, and my postpartum obesity was unbearable. Good-looking clothes can't be worn, and the whole person has lost self-confidence.
Every day is to breastfeed, coax the baby to sleep, make food and wash for the baby, and have other energy to dress up.
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It turns out that the price of being a mother is to go through the process of becoming ugly.
Of course, being a mother does not necessarily become ugly, as long as we actively do a good job of postpartum repair, we can all be beautiful little fairies.
@CK
I remember when I was a child, I always loved to get sick, and my parents took me to the hospital for three days and took a lot of medicine, so that now I am afraid to take medicine.
And my parents always nag me, don't wear autumn pants, love to kick the quilt... a little thing will also be nagged for a long time, I feel very annoyed.
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But when I became my mother myself, I suddenly understood my mother. Every time my baby was a little abnormal, she was nervous. In addition to the heartache, I was more worried: after the end, I had to take another leave of absence to take her to the hospital, and I had to deduct money again...
Now that I think about it, did my parents think the same thing back then?
Those broken thoughts that we are worried about are actually the love of our parents. Now that we are parents, we can understand their intentions.
@Lu Ming
When I was a child, I always thought how nice it would be if my mother was as gentle as other people's mothers, and I wouldn't be scolded and beaten.
But after my son was born, he didn't think so at all, because even the gentlest mother couldn't resist the toss of a naughty child. The so-called gentleness is nothing more than an effort to restrain one's temper. (Of course, when the child is cute, he really likes it)
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Unexpectedly, one day, the gentle me also became a grumpy mother.
Before becoming a mother, we were free to be ourselves, and after becoming a mother, we experienced the hardships of pregnancy, the anxiety and helplessness of bringing a baby after childbirth, and we knew better the difficulty of being a mother.
Giving birth to a baby, for every woman, is a big turning point in life. Every time we go through a certain path, we will have more cultivation in our hearts.
Now that you are a mother, I believe there are also many emotions, those stories or warmth, or bitterness, or funny, or helpless, at the end of the article and share it with us, Jiahui is willing to work with you to guard happiness and health.
Great maternal love, gratitude is always there