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Recently, a reader friend left a message asking me: he is 32 years old, introduced to two women, both 30 years old, one is single, one is divorced, single women are not as beautiful as divorced women, he is very entangled, do not know which one to choose? His entanglement lies in the fact that divorced women are a second-married woman, and it is not good to say it; although the woman who married first is single, she has also had a boyfriend, only the nominal first marriage, in fact, there have been men for a long time, just say it is good. In fact, he already had the answer in his heart, but he sent someone to affirm and match his ideas. So what is the biggest difference between "second marriage" and "first marriage" women?
1. Love
First Married Woman: What she wants is to marry love, to marry someone she is in love with. However, because there is indeed a big gap between love and marriage, the cumbersome chai rice oil and salt, and the annoyance of family trivia are not the marriage she originally imagined, these gaps will make her complain, trouble, and the contradictions will be aggravated, and the married life will fail.
Second-married woman: May have a marriage with each other, and even have children, these are doomed, in her heart there are some things that can not be released, such as pain, such as children, a woman's biggest weakness is the child, even if the family is re-formed later, she will also worry about the child, this is the nature of the mother, in the new family, she considers more of her own children, rather than each other's children, if there are children on both sides, it will really not be a bowl of water flat. Men should also be prepared to be embarrassed on both sides.
2, "Sex"
First married woman: more emphasis on love, first married woman bar does not understand the trivialities in life, often force their men to compromise with themselves to achieve their own goals, this kind of woman, only like to be themselves, marriage rarely care about men's feelings.
Second-married women: Experienced, naturally understand that in marriage, can play a role in mediating the life of couples, many second-married women will not make compromises in life, "as long as the husband and wife life is harmonious, 80% of women are willing to make changes." ”
3. About money
First married woman: sentient drinking water, talk about how vulgar money is, can not let their love become a victim of money, as long as two people love each other, money can be slowly corrected, the first married woman feels that they are married to people, not married to money, all because of money and tear them apart is her enemy.
Second-married woman: Poor and lowly couple Pepsi lament, because they have experienced married life, know that chai rice oil and salt are expensive, want to marry her, must have economic security, otherwise everything is exempt from talking; after marriage, she must also firmly grasp the economic power in her own hands, so that she can be steadfast in her heart.
After analyzing these three points, back to the question at the beginning, if you are the reader friend, do you choose the first married woman or the second married woman?
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