In love, no matter which man or woman takes the initiative first, as long as the relationship can be determined in the end, it is a good tendency.
Afraid to be afraid, the other party has been playing with you, treating you as an ordinary fish in his fish pond, no matter how you pay, he chooses not to see. Even if I see it, I don't want to return anything to you.
Moreover, although the other party agreed to your love request, he is not willing to pay after falling in love, he just wants to sit and wait for the profit of the fisherman.
Therefore, women should learn to be smart, if men have the following aspects, that is, "inactive" behavior:
1. The commitment before the relationship is determined is ambiguous
At a class reunion, Ms. Zhong met a classmate she especially liked when she was young, and it should be known that this classmate had never been to this party before. When Madam Zhong saw him, her eyes lit up, and she remembered that she had missed the opportunity to confess to him because she was weak and incompetent, and this time she must leave no regrets and chase him in the hand.
At the party, Ms. Zhong interacted with him very enthusiastically, successfully asked for his new contact information, and was even happier to learn that he did not have a girlfriend. After Ms. Zhong went back, she found various ways to chat with him, and the other party also replied one by one politely, and then Ms. Zhong invited him to dinner, watch movies, and go shopping, and he did not refuse, and over time, they became closer and closer.
Once, Ms. Zhong invited him to watch a movie, ate a hot pot, thought it was so late, went to a nearby hotel to stay, and then, unconsciously, the two people sublimated their friendship in a small space.
Ms. Zhong thinks that this is a natural thing, and he should offer to associate with himself. But after that, he never contacted Ms. Zhong again, even if Ms. Zhong sent more messages or phone calls, there was no reply, like the world evaporated.
After half a month of cooling off, Ms. Zhong realized that she had been deceived, he just wanted to get the skin kiss, his own initiative, how could he refuse? He had never made any explicit promises, and it was his own wishful thinking that he knew his own intentions.
Since then, Ms. Zhong has learned a hard and unforgettable lesson, if he really wants to be with you, he has already said that he will not drag on all the time, and the people who love you hate you to have a name, in order to give the love he wants to give you openly.
2. Do not take the initiative in the life of husband and wife
When it comes to liking someone, the body is the most honest. When most men are in love, they like to hold each other, smell each other's body, as long as they see her, they want to kiss her, and always think she is very cute.
After determining the relationship, adults have a clear understanding of the life of the two sexes, will be attracted to the body of the person they like, want to be entangled with her, and live an eternal life of old love.
But after a long time, it is inevitable that it will be tired, but the body will still react. If he is no longer active in this regard and is not interested in you, it is not love.
The Internet says that for a person at first sight, even if you see her every day, you will be moved by her and will like her again.
If a man is no longer active in the life of a couple, there are two kinds, the first is that he is older and the male hormones are declining, and the second is that he is not interested in you, I hope you understand.
epilogue:
For men who do not take the initiative, women should be smarter, learn to stop losses in time, do not hot face paste cold ass, and finally exchange for self-humiliation.
Men who love you will think that he does not give you enough, will not be hot and cold to you, uncertain, if he really can't do anything, he will tell you clearly in time, because he knows that women's emotions are uncertain, he will give you a reassuring pill, so that you have a sense of security. I hope that smart women understand that such a man is rejecting you.