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Meet scumbags and ruin youth
In the relationship, women are most afraid of meeting "scumbags". Scumbags have the mask of a good man at the beginning, taking care of you, and after chasing you, they will hurt you in various ways. Some women are simply kind and easy to fall into the trap of such scumbags.
In the end, knowing that the scumbag is not good, he is still dead to him, which is the most terrible. Wang Wei met such a scumbag, put into three years of youth, and finally had nothing. The scumbag is named Zhang Tao, and he is Wang Wei's high school classmate.
When I was in school, the two people had very little intersection and barely spoke. After graduation, none of them went to college and went to work in the provincial city. On a fortuitous occasion, they met.
When old classmates meet in big cities, it is inevitable that there is a little more intimacy. At that time, Wang Wei did not have any friends in the city, and when she encountered anything, she could only find Zhang Tao. The two people became familiar as soon as they came and went, and the intersection was increasing. Zhang Tao began to chase Wang Wei, the two people are in the same place, and then work together in the big city, it is indeed very appropriate.
Wang Wei felt that Zhang Tao was enthusiastic and down-to-earth, and it was good to look everywhere. In this way, Wang Wei and Zhang Tao were together, she thought that this was the beginning of happiness, but she did not expect it to be the beginning of tragedy.
Zhang Tao was very kind to her at first, but later it was like a changed person, and Wang Wei was injured to the skin. Now Wang Wei, who has finally broken off contact with Zhang Tao, looks back at the past three years and summarizes the characteristics of "scumbags" like Zhang Tao who like to play with women's feelings. Listen to the true words of the people who have come here.
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Feature 1: When chasing you, try to please
Until now, when Wang Wei thinks back to Zhang Tao's pursuit of herself, her eyes are full of tears, she said: "It is really difficult to imagine that someone who was once so good to me will eventually become like this." ”
When Zhang Tao pursued Wang Wei, he could be said to be meticulous. Wang Wei was busy working overtime, so Zhang Tao went to the company to accompany her to work overtime and bought her a supper. I don't know how many late nights were spent with Wang Wei by Zhang Tao.
The loneliness and loneliness in the big city were gradually dissolved by Zhang Tao. For a while, Wang Wei was sick and hospitalized, and Zhang Tao took a long vacation to run around in the hospital, and it was also during this time that Wang Wei was moved.
When confessing, Zhang Tao said: "Wang Wei, I will love you for the rest of my life." Wang Wei burst into Zhang Tao's arms with tears in her eyes, longing to grow old in an instant, longing to be with this man for a lifetime.
When they were just together, Zhang Tao also held Wang Wei in the palm of his hand, and handed in his salary card every month, just like two small mouths. Wang Wei said no, it is good to keep the money you earn to spend, but Zhang Tao said, you are in my heart, that is, my wife, give the money to you I am at ease.
At that time, Zhang Tao gave Wang Wei a full sense of security, and also let Wang Wei completely fall. However, how beautiful the beginning of the story is, how tragic the ending of the story is.
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Feature two: After winning the hand, it is hot and cold for you
Wang Wei gradually fell under the care of Zhang Tao, and cared more and more about Zhang Tao, caring about his warmth and coldness, and caring about his food and drink.
Zhang Tao knew that Wang Wei could not escape. As a result, his attitude toward Wang Wei changed from before, and he was hot and cold to her, often not answering the phone and not replying to the text message.
Wang Wei asked the reason, and the reply she got was always: "I'm busy, I'm socializing, can you please stop bothering me!" ”
Wang Wei didn't understand why Zhang Tao, who loved him so much, had become like this. In the past, Zhang Tao always stuck to Wang Wei and wanted to be with her every minute. Why is it that now when Wang Wei wants to spend more time with Zhang Tao, Zhang Tao's attitude is so indifferent.
Wang Wei couldn't think straight, and Zhang Tao didn't give an answer. Years of hot and cold, so that Wang Wei more and more suffering from gains and losses, she began to doubt whether Zhang Tao is in love with others, tracking, checking the mobile phone, after being found by Zhang Tao, it was another quarrel.
At this time, Wang Wei completely lost her self-esteem in front of Zhang Tao, began to doubt herself, and had no intention of working. Once, because he was thinking about Zhang Tao's wandering, he made a mistake in his work and was fired by his supervisor. Feelings are not smooth, lost a job, which is a huge blow to Wang Wei.
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Feature three: Bite you back when you break up
In this way, Wang Wei and Zhang Tao entangled for three years. In the past three years, Wang Wei has changed from a confident and beautiful woman to a complaining woman who complains about negativity, and only Wang Wei knows that Zhang Tao has destroyed not only her youth, but also her entire life.
In the face of this uncertain feeling, Wang Wei finally died and proposed to break up with Zhang Tao. Zhang Tao refused to live or die, he did not love Wang Wei, but he did not want to let her go. Wang Wei made up her mind to break up, and Zhang Tao saw that Wang Wei was so determined to be so big that she proposed to break up for 10,000 yuan.
Wang Wei had not saved any money, and now she came to ask herself for money, which was simply disgraceful. Zhang Tao said: "In the past three years, I have definitely spent more than ten thousand dollars on you, and it is still cheap for you to let you give me ten thousand." ”
Zhang Tao's face made Wang Wei feel sick. She gave Zhang Tao ten thousand pieces, just wanted to flee quickly, and never see Zhang Tao again.
What are the characteristics of "scumbags" who like to play with women's feelings? Listen to the true words of the people who have come here.
Wang Wei's story tells us that the characteristics of a scumbag are nothing more than taking care of you at the beginning, but later revealing their true faces, destroying you emotionally and exploiting you financially. Meet a scumbag, the blow to the woman is very big.
Whether married or in love, women should polish their eyes and not be carried away by men's sweet words. Once you find that men are unreliable, stop the loss in time, do not entangle too much, and waste your life.
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