"Women should be kind, but not too weak; women should be generous, but must not be stupid!" I would like to send this sentence to the women who are deeply troubled by feelings or marriages, because ah, these women are really too kind at heart, so kind that they can easily be hurt.
In emotional interaction, love and non-love are normal, love is good love, care with heart, do not love to let go, respect each other, this is the rational behavior. But some people, love is not good to love, do not love and do not let go, but repeatedly hurt. This makes the other party in the relationship very painful and tangled. Letting go is not, nor is it continuing, a dilemma.
Do you know how a man dares to hurt a woman repeatedly? A word that many people can think of is "scum", which naturally goes without saying, after all, good men will not hurt women. Only scumbags will do harm to women. But the reason why a man dares to hurt a woman repeatedly is only because scum is not enough, and there are other reasons. What is it?
01
It was because, he knew this woman too well, and he caught the woman's weakness. I felt like I was eating a woman. Because he knows that bullying this woman, he does not need to pay any costs and costs, as long as he exerts his nature, he can come as he wants. And he knew that it would take time and effort to make this woman happy and good to this woman. So, he didn't want to spend that energy.
02
This kind of man, in his fixed conception, he is not wrong. Of course, under the influence of this concept of thought, he cannot see his own fault, and even if he is wrong, he does not admit that this is his own reason, and he will blame the woman in turn, saying that he is forced by the woman to make mistakes; even if he can't find any excuse to blame the woman, it is not the woman who is forced at all, he is not willing to admit that he is wrong. So, when this kind of woman promises that he will correct her mistakes, you must not believe what he says, it is because he is just thinking about how to better hide his mistakes and not let you find out.
03
This kind of man has no feelings and cannot sympathize. He will not remember the difficulty of women accompanying him all the way, and he will not feel sorry for the hardships that women pay for their families. This kind of man is very selfish, he only loves himself, only knows how much money he has given to women, what kind of materials he has given women, he only knows how innocent and wronged he is when you complain and accuse him of not loving you. If you are dissatisfied with him and accuse him, this becomes your unintelligible understanding, the reason and reason why you forced him to betray the marriage.
04
This kind of man, he knows that women can't do without him. He knows women's weaknesses, knows what women mind, knows what women are most worried about, he even knows why women are angry, knows that women need to coax but don't coax... To put it bluntly, he knows everything, but he just doesn't cherish it. Because, if he eats you, he will feel that even if this is the case, what can you do? He felt that you were disobedient, unruly, and had a temper. Therefore, he will feel that he can do whatever he wants, and he will not consider the feelings of others at all. He also wants you to pretend to be blind, not to see his bad side, and let you better only pay and not take, it seems that such a woman is what he wants in his heart.
Therefore, based on the above four points, a man dares to hurt a woman repeatedly. In fact, there are many insincere men in the world, and there are too many men who are lucky. He was lucky and made mistakes, felt that he had the ability, and was still very happy, but he only forgot that men cheating on women are actually destroying themselves! However, this result has not yet arrived.
Finally, again, women should be kind, but not too weak; women should be generous, but must not be stupid!
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