Three kinds of men, even if they are not scumbags, will not give you happiness

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Source: Michelia White Orchid (ID: nvrendds)

Yishu said that what kind of man you choose to marry, you will marry what kind of life.

Choosing a mate is a major life event, and even a woman who is not ready to get married for a while will not treat her feelings hastily.

Women are afraid of meeting scumbags, so many women will focus on men who look down-to-earth and diligent.

But people's hearts are unpredictable, and these three kinds of men, even if they are not scumbags, cannot give you the happiness you want. Meet these three kinds of people, get out as soon as possible!

Ostensibly care about you

Actually want to control your man

Women want to be cared for and loved by men, especially when they first know each other, if the other party can remember their preferences and be considerate of themselves, women will experience a full sense of security.

It is obviously a good thing to care about women, but some men prefer to "overly" care. You go out to dinner, he has to video with you to see if there are any men around you; you buy a dress, he is too short, not noisy to let you back off.

His kindness to you is all conditional, that is, you have to be "obedient".

If you have a little disagreement, he will count down that you do not understand his kindness, and some women even doubt themselves because of this, whether they are too much.

A person likes to control his lover too much, in fact, because his inner inferiority and panic.

I feel that I am sometimes not worthy of a woman, so I have to be firmly optimistic, or I am afraid that you will meet a better man than him, and empathize with him.

True love, it's not like that.

He won't look at you for a minute out of sight and feel like you're flirting with another man, and he's not going to love like you've got a kitten.

With this kind of person, maybe you get a little bit of a temporary sense of security. But you are not his pet, and you cannot live according to his will in everything. When there is a hint of doubt and resistance, he returns you with an unusual rage and derogatory.

There may be many gestures of love, but the minimum of love is to like and appreciate. A man who always belittles you and wants to transform into the way he needs to be, is in control, not in love.

Seems to respect you

But the man who keeps his distance from you

Almost all women will have a green eye for a gentlemanly man.

When chatting encounters awkward topics, he can quickly change the scene and change the topic; and when he eats with him, he can always remember what you are afraid of and say hello in advance.

You've never quarreled with a red face, and he's always been a good gentleman who says, "Everything depends on you."

But when you always expect to go further with him, he always keeps a distance from you and does not move.

When I first met, I was very polite and personable, and it was indeed worth your liking, but the people who have known you for a long time and are still polite with you do not love you.

People who really love you, under the premise of respecting you, want to hold your hand impatiently, want to take you home to meet your parents as soon as possible, rather than keeping a distance every time, and be a transparent person who is warm on the surface and indifferent inside.

When you meet this kind of person, you don't have to make up your mind to test, and you don't have to go over and over and guess, because a person who really loves you will not restrain himself.

Seems honest and steady

In fact, there are contradictions that always love cold and violent men

After experiencing several failed relationships, many women are discouraged, and finally just want to find an honest person, not how romantic and funny he is, just trying to live a down-to-earth life.

This kind of man, the first impression of others, is mostly more introverted, like to do things directly, rather than rhetoric.

Not being good at talking is not a disadvantage, on the contrary, many introverts are delicate in their minds, have strong empathy ability, and when they really fall in love with someone, they are very happy to get along with him.

Honest men really love you, although they are not very good at talking, but when they encounter some quarrels, they are always willing to accommodate you, even if they are angry again, they are willing to solve the problem.

But some men, a little contradictory, cold face does not say a word, you ask him he is annoyed with you; you do not ask, he does not say a word to you for half a month, so anxious that you are angry.

Living with this kind of "honest" man is like guessing riddles.

Seeing that he is not happy, you want to comfort him, he gives you a sentence that it is okay, blocking your interest; seeing that he is happy and wanting to ask him what is good, he throws you a sentence that it is okay, causing you to rejoice in the air.

A person who loves you from the bottom of his heart cannot bear not to say it. If you don't communicate with you about big things and small things, I think this relationship is already in harmony with God.

Choosing a mate is a major life event, so when interacting, do not feel that each other is suitable because they are "honest".

No matter who you meet, no matter who you like, you must also be cautious, see these three kinds of men, and try to stay away from each other.

It doesn't matter if you meet the wrong person, don't be discouraged; there must be someone in this world who is suitable for you, you laugh at him and understand your laughter, and he can feel it when you cry.

If you have met such a person, please cherish it; if he is still in the future, you must learn to precipitate yourself and emit a more dazzling light to illuminate the way he came.

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